(Closed) Why does TTC have to be so difficult? :(

posted 4 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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618 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

weightwatchers152:  I’m sorry this hasn’t been an easy journey for you ((hugs)). Hoping your appointment with the oncologist gets you some answers and that your journey gets easier from here on out. Good luck.

Post # 3
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1591 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

weightwatchers152:  Hugs, Hugs, Hugs. I’m so sorry this has been a difficult journey for you. Please know you still have so many options and treatments available to you and the odds are in your favor! I will be thinking of you.

Post # 4
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7977 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

You have a lot of things working against you… but look at what you have working FOR you…

– You have been able to get access to a variety of specialists very quickly

– You have already had lots of tests done

– You already have a tentative diagnosis/diagnoses

– You already have treatment options

Knowledge really is power… I think it’s really better to know what is wrong rather than to move forward blindly. It probably seems like you’ve been TTC for a long time, with all these problems, but you really are streets ahead of some of the ladies here. Take courage! Modern medicine is amazing, and you will have treatment options.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

Sometimes a pity party helps. Just be careful to not go too far down that hole because it can be hard to pull yourself back out. When we found ourselves getting woe-is-me about the whole thing, we would try to turn it around. “Why not us? We’re a strong couple and we can overcome anything. These struggles will only bring us closer together as a couple. And these struggles will only help us appreciate our eventual pregnancy and child even more because we will know how hard we worked to make it all happen.” I am sure that sounds very hokey, but being able to turn it around and piut a positive spin on things made the entire situation much more bearable.

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