Post # 46
It was too important to my DH to be the one to propose and follow that tradition. Typically, the bride plans most of the wedding and it’s always referred to as “her” day and she is the center of attention (not saying that’s right or wrong, but it often pans out that way…). The proposal is the thing that is all about the guy. Before we were engaged my DH actually told me that he had thought about finding the woman he wanted to marry and planning the perfect proposal the way girls often dream of their weddings. I wouldn’t have wanted to take that away from him!
Post # 47
Why don’t more girls propose? Biology 101.
Post # 48
I proposed and he said yes! Actually what he said was’ this wasn’t my plan but of course!!’ He reproposed to me when he got the ring (his great grandmother’s which we then ended up redesigning together)