- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
Me and my partner have been engaged for nine months now. He proposed to me in our favourite resturant.. not what i call brilliantly romantic but it was lovely
We have been together for three years and I have two childrem from before i met him but he has been bringing the children up with me pretty much since the begining.
My son is 6
My daughter is 3
I am 22
and he is 36
We want to get married next summer (June – August 2012). Thats all fine but he is being very strange.
He pretty much refuses to plan or talk about the wedding untill EXACTLY a year before… when i mentioned that if we dont have a date then how do we know when its a year before (Durrr) i just get into trouble.. he had a go at me and started going on about how much work he had to do.. blah blah.. usual stuff
I know he works hard i really do and i appreciate what he does but i think hes a workaholic. He doesnt relax and it makes him ill and tired and leaves me feeling neglected. not to mention the children sometimes..
Hes a 100% lovely brilliant man i couldnt want anything else.. hes just being really weird.. Hes told me 4 times ” We can sort out a date after this week/in 2 weeks/ after this weeks out of the way, ect, ect
Im getting a bit tired of hearing it.. I have a TERRIBLE menory so i started writing down when he said we could so i didnt ask him twice about the same thing because i know it annoys him.. he saw it and he was very annoyed and thought i was doing it to annoy him and to show him how he didnt care or something silly like that, it was only for a reminder to me thats all..
I think he was annoyed when he found it because he realised or it showed him how many times and excuses hes told me i dont know
I just feel sad about it now.. The three venues i really liked are all now not available for when we want (i told him this) I know he wants to get married and he is looking forward to it, he keeps saying lets just get this week out of the way.. but he says that all the time.. theres always going to be “something else” to do
I dont know what to say to him anymore..