Why is laughing during sex bad?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2014

There are times I’ve laughed when intimate.  In fact, it happened the other day.  Something was done or said that made me giggle, and he laughed too.  We don’t think it’s a no-no!  We’re human, after all, and when we see something that makes us giggle and laugh, we do.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Darling Husband and I laugh sometimes but it’s if we catch each other doing something. Like not to long ago we were in the process and I started cracking up at him because he had his orgasm and his face looked ridiculous and his hand was doing a weird thing that made me think back to the movie “scary movie” where the butler had that messed up hand and was like “take my strong hand” and it was his little hand. I couldn’t help but laugh. Darling Husband laughed too. Sometimes you just find things funny and you gotta laugh lol

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

My husband loves when I laugh during sex. He tickles me on purpose to make me laugh.

As long as you’re not laughing AT your partner, I don’t see the problem. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee

We laughed so hard our first time together (OK, we were both really drunk, too). But, we talked about it later and how we loved how comfortable we were with each other, and TRULY having fun. It’s our personalities and we laugh a lot together, why not during sex too? Try having sex with the TV on to the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. Not watching it, but catching a commentary or a song. We were both cracking up then too! Sex doesn’t have to be serious romance all the time.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I usually laugh at least once every time Fiance and I get intimate. I’m just so darn happy about the situation, I guess, and I can’t keep it in, haha. Fiance laughs occasionally, too, usually when we’re trying a position or something and it is just not working for whatever reason. He just kind of chuckles and says, ok, let’s maybe try this instead.

Also, sometimes something funny does happen. Once the dog woke up from his nap and came over and laid his head on the bed next to mine and was just staring at us, literally just a few inches away from my face. I couldn’t stop myself from giggling uncontrollably. Fiance had to put him outside the room so I could focus, lol.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

Pretty sure Darling Husband have the most insane funny love life ever. I don’t know that sex is supposed to be as hysterical as it is for us but it works for us. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it depending on the mood.  If things are getting a bit rough then maybe giggling isn’t the right reaction, but during making love I laugh with my partner all the time.  It’s a happy time.  

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

@DeathByDesign: +1

My SO knows i laugh when I am happy or somethings funny. If he does something crazy, in or out of bed, then I’m going to laugh. I also always giglle when we make out because I. am. a. child =0p

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Creiddylad:  We’ve both definitely laughed during sex.  Yes, it can be a little awkward, but it’s also kind of sweet in a weird way.  I mean, if you’re so comfortable with this person that you can just burst into laughter while they’re inside you … That’s real intimacy, in my opinion.

I do agree that laughing at someone during sex is never appropriate.  But if one of you says or does something funny, starts tickling the other, etc. … I say enjoy the moment and laugh!  

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

We have both laughed during sex because of slip ups or something silly.  I know I’m ticklish so there are times where I can’t really help it.  DH just looks at me and shakes his head.  Haha.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I not only think it’s ok but that’s it’s totally healthy and normal! Sure there are the times when it’s really hot and steamy or touchingly romantic, but most of the time it’s just a sexualized version of hanging out. Like when I’m making my way down to, ahem, there I’ll sometimes detour and start playfully making out with his tickle spots or even make raspberry noises on his tummy. He loves it, and it just tells me how comfortable and relaxed the atmosphere is. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Queefs. How could you possibly think that laughing at things like queefs during sex a no-no? absolutely hilarious!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Catholic Church

@Creiddylad:  I find that laughing at someone during sex is bad but laughing at a ridiculous sound that happened or just getting giddy with excitement and becoming giggley isn’t bad.

Perhaps your SO thinks that it detracts from the experience or that it suggests you’re not completely into it because you’re noticing outside happenings?

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