(Closed) Why is Sex such a big damn deal…ARGH!!! (Vent)

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 31
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

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@nontraditionalmiami: “ALL HE CARES ABOUT IS PUTTING HIS PENIS IN YOU.”

You’re such a bleeding heart romantic!  Tongue out

Post # 32
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@very marry:  haha i am actually.  but i was just trying to make everyone put themselves in their guy’s head for a minute:p    

Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@nontraditionalmiami: lol. you’re hilarious. I think my fiance would totally 100% agree with you.

Post # 34
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@ Crisark

Your advice was awesome! I also feel like Fiance and I also go through this cycle, and it’s been happening more than I like. I WANT to reciprocate, but I just kinda feel “blah” and it’s like… “okay, you can’t wait until 10pm to start cuddling up to me and put me in the mood” – It needs to be like an all day/constant thing (dont get me wrong, Fiance is great and attentive in bed, but his switch flips faster than mine).

Hearing you say how a guy thinks about it really made me consider the reasons for his behavior. Then I got all warm and fuzzy, because he is a very affectionate person 🙂

Post # 35
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@.twist.: and that doesn’t make him a bad guy either!  my husband is the biggest sap i know.  baby talk, wants to cuddle all the time, etc.. but boy if i bend over naked in front of him, he reverts right back to the 15 year old boy side lol i think most men are like that. 

ladies if you have a few extra lbs on you and your husband/S.O. still hits you up for sex…trust me, that’s a great sign that your relationship is in tact.  sex isn’t the most important thing in the relationship but it’s up there.

Post # 36
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@nontraditionalmiami: haha. I totally get that too. Gotta love em. I always say to him “eeeeew look at how gross my legs are!” and he’s like “what? I don’t see anything” and I’m like “see this little dot? and that little dot? eeeeeeew”. and he just rolls his eyes at me!?

Post # 37
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@.twist.: exactly.  it’s the media’s fault too (why we’re like that).  but don’t even get me started on that subject.

Post # 39
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Mr. Hedgie and I struggle with this from time to time. I have very very low sex drive… It used to be crazy high but over time it has just diminished more than I would like to admit. I hate it. And if I hate it I can only imagine how much he hates it. He has said on numerous occasions that sometimes he “needs it” and sometimes he just “wants it”. It doesn’t make sense but that is the way it is. It is how he feels closer and connected to me and it is always an emotional thing, even if it is just fooling around. So, I try my best to have fun as much as possible (or as much as I can get myself or let him get me in the mood). Sex is important in a relationship. More important than us women realize (or want to admit) sometimes.

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