- Miss T-Rex
- 5 years ago
- Wedding: February 2013
We had a talk tonight, and let me tell you it did not start off great because I am not great at keeping the “issues” current in our relationship. HOWEVER, despite me blowing a silly thing out of proportion HE was mature enough to sit and talk out what was going on.
Ladies, I am not kidding when I say keep things current and the lines of communication open, and I’m not talking about morse code. If your not clear or uncertain, ask. Don’t let a misunderstanding lead to silly cry sessions like I did.
What it all came down to is this, we will be engaged by the end of this year. I was both relieved and dissapointed. That’s 120 ish days away! Good lord how will I make it?! I didn’t mention that, he said it all by himself and was really excited to say it, melted me to the core I tell you! He’s started a 401k for when we’re older, and started planning and saving for the house, the kids, and OUR LIVES. 😀
He’s okay with me moving to Charelston, or Dayton, or Columbas because he wants me to be happy. He’d rather not prefer Denver because the halfway point is rather rediculous still. He is 100% supportive of me fulfilling my dreams of helping kids around the world and while he doesn’t share them I know he cares enough to get me there! Besides, I think being apart before we get married will be good for us, we’re sooo used to always being 20 minutes away.
He really is the best thing in my life and I tear up even thanking God for creating him for me. I just should have nixed all the stupidity by being honest about everything, but he’s very very very poor at communicating whats going on inside that handsome head of his so it was a little bit me, a little bit him.
He may not be perfect but he’s more than I could have ever hoped for! So while I worried all for nothing it got the lines open and I can say I AM SOOOO HAPPY!
I get to marry him, me! AHAHAHAHA!
*fingers crossed time goes by quickly*