(Closed) Why, people, WHY?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

YES! Someone needs to think of the details!! Aghhhh!

 

also, I don’t know about you, but I love making myself crazy with details :3

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Drives me up the wall thats for sure. i could just ring the next persons neck! LOL

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yes it makes me mad! My Fiance says it all the time about the wedding but he lives across the country so he doesn’t have to do anything. I’m stuck doing everything all by myself so it makes me mad when he doesn’t understand the stress I’m under. I just tell him fine, I won’t do anything anymore and I will leave it all up to him and see how stressed he gets. He ends up changing his tune.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

They are probably just speaking form retrospect, secretly knowing that it really does all work out. but  at the time your world is ending and you want those people to STFU and be more compassionate 😉

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2012

yes, yes, yes. i get this a lot from my single friends who have never felt the utter joys of wedding planning… never been up to their necks in napkin samples and table linens and china patterns…. ugh. fabulous weddings dont just “happen” people!! 🙂

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@GeekChic:  I hate the term bridezilla and wish it never existed. My step father thinks he is being funny when I disagree with any suggestions that anyone offers, not just him, and it gets really freaking annoying. It’s not being a bridezilla to want what you want. I don’t think that I am being a bridezilla to ask that people ship the gifts, since we are getting married 3,000 miles away from where we live.

Anyways, thanks for putting up with that rant. OP, yes. I do find it very annoying. Just let me complain about it! It’s not going to work itself out right away!

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@MissCT   “It’s not being a bridezilla to want what you want” <– amen sista bee!! 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Shouldn’t have posted that rant… but glad that you agree!!

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

Walk the line movie line ~

 

Johnny ~ “it’ll work itself out,”

June ~ “no, it does not work itself out. People work it out for you, and you think it works itself out.”

 

One of my fav’s!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@montanamum Yes! I feel like being detailed oriented in any other facet of life is looked at as a good thing, but in wedding planning, it gets a bad connotation.

It’s like a double edged sword—people love and remember the details, but in getting to them, you’re labeled as too controlling or a “bridezilla.” So not fair. It’s not like we’re those chicks from My Big Fat Gypsy wedding or anything! UGH!

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2016

Oh my goodness yes!!!! Bugs me. That and people saying I have plenty of time!! 7.5 months to plan. Ummmmm no I dont!!! That’s planning up to the day of our wedding. Stuff has to be thought out/booked/ and all paid for by then. But it’ll “all work itself out”right?! Lol

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