(Closed) WHY the need for these mysterious guests?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh my! I’m sorry you’re going thru this. It is a little wierd that niether of you, especially her own son has never met any of these ppl and she has events all the time. I’m with you tho, if they aren’t important enough to be invited to her events then why on earth must they be invited to your wedding. What did she say when you guys told her that she would have to pay for them?

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Has she said who these people actually are? and are they that important that they come if no one has met them ever??? I wouldn’t waste the guest list on them even if she is paying for them….

Post # 5
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1023 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yea…I think if the groom doesn’t even know his mother’s friends then its not really appropriate for them to be there.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh yeah, my Future Mother-In-Law is doing this too, so I totally sympathize.  There’s people on the guest list my fiance didn’t even know!  My rule is if you don’t know who they are, they’re not coming.  I took them off the list.

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