(Closed) Why you should stick to the challenge! (And not put your foot in it like I did!)

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Lubylu89: Im sorry you had an arguement with your bf. If it makes you feel any better, I failed the valentines day challenge miserably also. And even though you may have messed up your valentines day proposal :(, now you know that there is one in the very near future and that he really is committed to you and a life together. So now you can just enjoy the time until he pops the question! Although it will probably still drive you crazy Wink

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

I am so sorry =( hope he won’t have you wait too much longer.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

oh you poor thing!  hopefully it will be sooner than later – try not to beat yourself up too much

 

Post # 6
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Awww…it will be hard to wait but at least you know he was thinking about it and has the ring!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

I don’t get it. YOU ruined the surprise and proposal because HE told you that he bought a ring and was going to propose on Valentines day? Just because you two were fighting doesn’t mean he needed to tell you all that. So don’t be too hard on yourself, he kinda ruined it by telling you, and then saying you ruined it was just his way to make it hurt after y’all had fought. Kind of like saying, “So there!”

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think he ruined it, not you. He didn’t need to tell you abot Valentine’s Day to get his point across. Poor fighting technique on his part!

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I completely agree with crayfish and AmySee- don’t let him put the blame on you! You probably just made him upset and he wanted to say something hurtful. Now you can work on repairing any damage done, and know that he’s got your future in mind.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Boooo… he ruined it,  not you.  Don’t feel bad.  At least you found out some info.  You may be waiting a bit longer than he’d originally planned, but hopefully not too much longer.  He could even do it BEFORE V-day.  It would still be a surprise.

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