Post # 1
I know I was on here a mere few hours ago, having a major vent, but here goes:
I had an argument with my Boyfriend or Best Friend about moving in together. He currently lives with his parents and is waiting for me to finish University so that we can live together. His parents are moving in about a year and my Boyfriend or Best Friend wanted to wait until then to live together and not in four months, as we planned. This was so that he could help his parents move and then find somewhere to live that was between where his parents and my parents live. (We live in a really remote area and we are both close to our families.) This really wound me up and I understood this to mean that he does not want to make the commitment of moving in together. We had a huge fight (over the phone, as we are in an LDR) and I ignored him for several hours.
Anyway, once I finally decided to answer the phone to him, he said that he was commited to our relationship. If he wasn’t then why on earth had he already bought a ring and was going to ask me on Valentine’s Day. Now I wish that I didn’t go and put my foot into it! He said he’s not going to ask on Valentine’s as I ruined the surprise, so now I have to wait even longer. I am now wishing I kept my mouth shut.
So, not only did I ruin my surprise, but I also failed (rather miserably) at the challenge! Let that be a lesson to you.
Post # 3
@Lubylu89: Im sorry you had an arguement with your bf. If it makes you feel any better, I failed the valentines day challenge miserably also. And even though you may have messed up your valentines day proposal :(, now you know that there is one in the very near future and that he really is committed to you and a life together. So now you can just enjoy the time until he pops the question! Although it will probably still drive you crazy
Post # 4
I am so sorry =( hope he won’t have you wait too much longer.
Post # 5
oh you poor thing! hopefully it will be sooner than later – try not to beat yourself up too much
Post # 6
Awww…it will be hard to wait but at least you know he was thinking about it and has the ring!
Post # 7
I don’t get it. YOU ruined the surprise and proposal because HE told you that he bought a ring and was going to propose on Valentines day? Just because you two were fighting doesn’t mean he needed to tell you all that. So don’t be too hard on yourself, he kinda ruined it by telling you, and then saying you ruined it was just his way to make it hurt after y’all had fought. Kind of like saying, “So there!”
Post # 8
I think he ruined it, not you. He didn’t need to tell you abot Valentine’s Day to get his point across. Poor fighting technique on his part!
Post # 9
I completely agree with crayfish and AmySee- don’t let him put the blame on you! You probably just made him upset and he wanted to say something hurtful. Now you can work on repairing any damage done, and know that he’s got your future in mind.
Post # 10
Boooo… he ruined it, not you. Don’t feel bad. At least you found out some info. You may be waiting a bit longer than he’d originally planned, but hopefully not too much longer. He could even do it BEFORE V-day. It would still be a surprise.