(Closed) Will anyone come?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@KathyMc:  I don’t know if it’s too late to cancel, but why not have a wedding that you would expect less people to come to anyway, like a destination or a cruise?

Post # 4
2585 posts
Sugar bee

@KathyMc:  Well you get your final RSVP count and you call the caterer and change it to around that amount. Who wants to pay extra money for people who you don’t REALLY want there to celebrate. I would rather have a handful of great people than a bunch of aquaintances or people i felt obligated to invite.

If it isn’t too late, go with a smaller wedding – kinda sounds like that is what you wanted?

Post # 5
93 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@AnonymousCupcake:  I like this idea too. Especially if you have a few people that are important to you, it would make it special and you would get to hang out and have more memories than just from the wedding night.

Post # 6
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

@KathyMc:  I’m sorry you are dealing with this.  I’m really worried about attendance at my wedding too–which is why like @AnonymousCupcake:  suggested, I really want a destination wedding.  I’m hoping that it will mean that not too many people come, maybe SO and I get to do something really neat and different, and we can keep it affordable.

Just focus on the money you will save by not having a lot of extra people!!

Post # 7
302 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

You think you have problems?! I have 5 people to invite… and my fiancee has 150 LOL mostly family whom I’ve never met, and not all speak English ๐Ÿ™‚


Just remember that this day if for YOU!! It does not matter who comes or how fancy the food is (you do not have to overspend or show off)– this wedding is about your love and all you need to focus on that day is your new husband and the love you have for eachother ๐Ÿ™‚ that day is for YOU to celebrate! doesn’t matter who is there or not


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