- 5 years ago
I’m new to this site but it look so helpful.
Here’s my dilemma, My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and we’ve always knew we wanted to get married one day, even from the beginning. At first we were waiting for him to finish college to get engaged and he did that last year, then we were waiting for him to find a stable job (he’s had that for about 5 months now). He said he’s saving up for a ring and he will have the money by january and then he wants to get his own apartment but doesn’t want to propose until april. we even have a wedding day set (SEPTEMBER 21). I simply don’t get it! We decided not to move in together until we are married and all that, so I’m very anxious. He works constantly so our quality time is’t as much as I’d like it to be and so once we are married and living together we can spend nights and mornings together.
I just don’t understand why he wants to wait all that time when i could be offically planning it sooner. Sometimes i wonder if he’s lying about april because he always told me he would propose when i least expect it. Maybe it could be sooner. Ah, i don’t know. Any advice?