Post # 1
So far Ive been to 4 bridal shops and altho i like some of the dresses and they are very pretty i dont LOVE any of them and dont have any special feelings like i hear peopl have.. is that a total thing you see on tv, the “THIS IS IT” moment or am i being too picky?
Post # 3
You will. I tried on sooo many dresses…and then I walked into one store and the dress i have chosen was on a model right at the top of the stairs I had to walk up, and I tried it on along with about 8 other dresses, it was the last one I tried and the moment I saw it I knew it was the perfect dress 🙂
My advice is don’t allow the assistants to talk you into something you wouldn’t usually go for.
Post # 4
@des1982: ah i was wondering the exact same thing…I am going to ANOTHER bridal salon tomorrow, so hopefully I’ll find something!! I just really like everything but have not had that AH HA! moment either 🙁
Post # 5
Oh girl, dont settle!! I did believe in that special moment but was starting to wonder after trying on 15 dresses. I almost settled on a dress that I thought was ‘pretty’. But man, I am so glad that I didn’t. I kept feeling ‘ok’ in those dresses. There was always something missing until I tried on the one! I didn’t cry, but I really did feel emotional when i tried on my perfect dress! I didn’t want to take it off. I have no doubt about it and am totally in bliss when I see it. It is an amazing feeling! And I hope you find that feeling of no regret! Keep searching and be filled with hope! You will find that perfect dress if you don’t give up hope! Good luck!!
Post # 6
Don’t settle on one you don’t love… I too did not think I would get any kind of feeling, I’m super logical and not an emotional person like that. For me I just found a dress and I could not imagine not wearing it, and I can’t stop thinking about it. I put it on and was just stunned how much I loved it. No crying or anything, just super happy.
Until that point I was debating between two other dresses which were very pretty but I had some reservations about.
You will find it… Keep trying different styles!
Post # 7
Have you at least found a style of dress that looks good on your body and complements your wedding date/venue? I tried on at least 60 dresses but once I knew the style I wanted it made it much easier, and I didn’t waste time trying on dresses I wouldn’t like.
Post # 8
Most definitely! For some of us it isn’t as simple or as quick but eventually you will realize it when you have found the dress.
I shopped for over three months and tried on well over one hundred dresses and I had also given up hope. I had a discussion with the manager at a local boutique and realized that I needed to expand my horizons a bit, apparently I was just really trying on the same type of dress over over. When I put on MY dress I knew it was different. While I did battle with my share of dress regret (because there are SO many gorgeous dresses out there) I am so glad I stuck with the one that made me feel giddy.
Just keep an open mind at first and DON’T settle.
Post # 9
You’ll find it, don’t give up! When I got engaged in February, I bought like 10 different magazines because i was so excited about finding a dress. I had an idea in my head of the dress that I saw myself in, I was sure that I was going to find a picture and take it to the bridal salon and there would be the ballgown and everyone would live happily ever after.
Except when I flipped through all the magazines I hated literally every dress. And when I tried dresses on, they all felt wrong. I didn’t feel special and I looked at other brides in the salon and they were all kind of trying on the same mermaid or a-line or ballgown. Then I found the dress i literally would have never tried on it (it was so sparkly on the hanger haha). And it was about 5 sizes too big and couldn’t really be pinned back so it made me resemble a box. It was double my budget. And it went against the entire look I originally imagined. It was also nothing like a traditional gown. Except when I put it on, I felt beautiful. I didn’t cry but it just felt right.
Think outside the box, take a chance, and I’m sure your perfect dress is out there waiting for you.