Post # 1
I am only about 5’3 and with the expception of my sister (MOH) I am the shortest on in the bridal party. I have 2 inch heals to wear on wedding day becuase i thought at least maybe i could last most of the night if i got a shorter heal. However, my Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses are cocktail length and it would look so so good with cute heals!!!! but if my Bridesmaid or Best Man wear heals i will def be shorter than them, but the flats just arent as cute. also, i know at least 2 of my Bridesmaid or Best Man wont wear they heals they woudl prefer the flats. so should i just tell everyone to wear whatever they want as i was going to do in teh first place????? or maybe heals for the ceremony/flats for the reception??? ahh i dont know i know this sounds like a stupid issue but i dont want to be lost on my wedding day lol.
Post # 3
You are the bride, right? Everyone will be looking at you, no matter what. Even if you are the shortest 🙂
Post # 4
My sister is 6’0 and my bff is 5’3 on a good day, lol. They stood next to each other at the wedding, and I am looking at a pic of the entire party right now that is hanging on my wall, and it doesn’t look bad at all. everyone in our party was a diffferent height, and honestly, I think it would look weird if everyone was the same. I think it’ll be fine, and pics will turn out great!
Post # 5
Oh hun… please don’t stress about this. You are the bride!! You will not be lost on your wedding day!! So what if you’re shorter than your friends? YOU are the one wearing the white wedding dress… not them!! I guarantee all eyes will be on you all night.
I am 5’0″ and my bridesmaids are all way taller than me. I told them to just get whatever shoes they are comfortable in, heels, flats, whatever. It doesn’t matter that they will be towering over me cuz it’s still MY party. 😉
Post # 6
i was the shortest in my wedding party, as the bride 🙂 but my husband and i are both kinda short – he is 5’7 and im 5’2 – im pretty sure most of my wedding part was about his height or taller and all taller than me! even with heels but pictures looked fine!
Post # 7
I’m 5’1″ – I’m always the shortest in any group! It’s no biggie. Don’t even worry about it. You will still be the visual focal point.
(Also, it’s heels, not heals. Sorry to be a spelling nazi!)
Post # 8
I would wear whatever makes you feel the best!
I am 5’2 and the shortest person at my wedding! I am hoping that the flashy ivory dress well help me stand out! 😛
Post # 9
I’m pretty sure no one will miss you if you’re the bride 😉
Post # 10
OP, I am 5’1″, so I totally get what you are saying. But my BMs are all also around that height (5’2″, 5’3″, 4’11”), except one, who is 5’8″. I just told them to wear whatever they wanted. We’re going to have a crazy amount of height disparity, especially because 4’11” is wearing flats! I wouldn’t worry about it if I was you! You’re going to be beautiful no matter how tall you are!
Post # 11
I’m 5’2 and the girls in my bridal party range from 5’0 to 5’7 – don’t worry about it!
Post # 12
You’re 5’3 and there is NOTHING you can do about it. Sure, you can get some 5″ heels, but how long will those last? Who cares about how tall or short you are, you’re the bride!!!
Post # 13
Don’t worry about it all. I have a sister that is my same height, and another sister that is 5’10 (both were BMs). Throw into the mix that my Darling Husband is 6’6″ (I’m 5’4″) and all his groomsmen that are over 6’0″ combined with the fact that I had to wear flats due to crummy winter conditions…yes, I looked like a shortie, but everyone in our lives are used to me looking like a shortie, so it wasn’t any different on our wedidng day. You will look beautiful and will standout no matter the height of your wedding party!
Post # 14
Wow haha! Thanks everyone!!!! I will be telling my BMs to wear whatever shoes they want!!! lol
Post # 15
I was in a wedding recently and the bride got the tallest heels she could because her husband is tall and she’s short. I STILL towered over her in pictures and I was wearing flats! Love who you are short, tall, whatever.
Post # 16
If you like the heels, wear those, and have a pair of flats to change into if your feet start hurting. And I say, let your bridesmaids wear whichever they’re more comfortable with. I don’t think the height is important at all, you’ll be the center of attention no matter what. 🙂