(Closed) Will people take his ring seriously? (Sorry,long post)

posted 9 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

A lot of men are opting for the tungsten bands, including my husband. If it is worn on the right finger, I dont’ think there is a questions at all whether it is a wedding band or not

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

nope, as long as it’s on the correct finger i think people get that he’s married!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My FI’s got a tungsten ring for his wedding band, and I know there are a lot of bees who’ve gotten tungsten for their men/women/themselves. It’s not the material of the band that makes it a wedding band, it’s the finger you wear it on and the ceremony behind it.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Icey: Lots of men have wedding bands made out of different metals. Tungsten is very popular. Titanium too. I don’t think the metal matters at all. My brother’s is wood in titanium.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

That tungsten ring is similar to DH’s and I don’t think anyone would get confused.  It is very unusual for a guy to wear 2 rings.  The only way I think someone would get confused is if it was a class ring or a ring with a silly design (like a skull or something).

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

As long as the ring is on his left ring finger, they’ll know. No worries! Lots of “alternative materials” are catching on these days.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I assume tungsten band on that finger = married man.  It’s getting very popular for obvious reasons, I wouldn’t worry about it!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@Icey: my fiance got a tungsten ring as well…and oddly enough i have the same feelings as you sometimes. the thin gold (or whatever band) looks so “Im married”, i know thousands of men that have that ring and to me they look married.

My husband and i have been married for almost a year now *yeah* and everyone knows he is married even though he wears a dark, almost black ring on his wedding ring finger 🙂

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My hubby wears a stand in ring for work and his gold band on weekends. Like PP said, as long as it’s on the right finger, he is married!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I agree, I think if its on the right finger, that hes married. I’ve seen a lot of men with tungsten wedding bands now a days.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

My husband has a tungsten wedding band. And several of my co-workers have tungusten or titanuim wedding bands. It’s quite common now (I think most of the guys I know that have been married in the last few years have gone with an “alternative metal” and not gold or platinum), there’s no reason why it wouldn’t be taken seriously.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think you’re WAY over thinking this.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Like PP’s have said, if it’s being worn on the correct finger, no one will question it!

My Fiance wants two rings as well, he wants a plain band for when he works (he owns a bar so he works with his hands and cleaning dishes etc.) and a nicer one for when we go out…  I think this is actually a pretty common thing now adays. 🙂

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Tungstan is the way to go!!

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