(Closed) Will the FI regret this???

posted 9 years ago in Music
Post # 3
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16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Dereksbride, I wouldn’t worry. In that special moment, he may not even see you yet, but all he will be able to think about is when you will appear. I can pretty much guarantee you that you will be the first and probably only thing on his mind…definitely not your ex.

Now, if it were the other way around — you wanted the song but he didn’t because of your ex, it would be different, and I’d say no no.

However, all of that being said, YOU don’t want to be thinking of your ex when you walk down the aisle, so if you aren’t comfortable with the song, I think you FH will understand. He too wants to be the only man on your heart and mind.

Post # 4
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4382 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

That’s a hard situation. I’m not sure if I’d do it if I were in your shoes.

I’m looking through some of my sheet music and classical music stuff. What instruments will you have, or is it going to be a recording?

Post # 5
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

maybe you need some sort of quite moment to reclaim this song as your own to give to your Fiance.  maybe you and your Fiance sit down quitely and with the music playing in the background tell eachother something about the music and your love for eachother….  i know its  sounds all very hoodoo voodooo but it might make you feel better about it

 

 

 

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think it’s a great opportunity to create a new memory for that song… and the main memory of that song.  It’s like changing the vibe of it, know what I mean? 

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

My brain is being stupid as far as classical goes, I keep thinking of stuff with a whole lot of pomp. (I.E. Vivaldi Spring, Brandenburg Concerto, etc)

BUT

This is sort of random, but I bookmarked this on my youtube a while ago. It’s a cello and piano, beautiful, but contemporary. Just listen, it’s beautiful, even though it’s probably not really what you’re going for. 🙂

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0v3d6SFcDys

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

No problem! I’m trying to look for the sheet music for you too. 🙂 I’m so glad you like it. Isn’t it just fantastic? I love the percussion too! It’s just so awesome.

 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

dereksbride2b: I wouldn’t worry about what he will think when he sees you float down the aisle! He will think about how beautiful you are and maybe not even hear the music!

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