- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I know there are a few posts relative to this topic, but I think the RSVP date can influence the mailing date. I want to know what you bees think based on that difference.
Fiance and I were going to wait another week or two before mailing the invitations. They are laying around taking up space and we will have them finished on Wednesday. I’ve been thinking I want to have them mailed out by Saturday this week or Monday next week. That means guests will have them about 8 1/2-9 weeks before the wedding. I know the traditional window is to mail them 6-8 weeks before (giving guests 5 1/2 at the least to 7 1/2 weeks at the most).
We want to set the RSVP date for July 21st. I think I’m ok and that this will be a silly question, but I want to be sure. I’m just worried that the earlier we send them the more guests will think they have all the time in the world to RSVP. I don’t want them to think that and then forget about it.
My mom is mailing out our shower invitations this week too if that makes any difference.