- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2014
I got engaged about a month ago and have decided to have 2 bridesmaids. FI is going to have 4 (1 man, 3 women) and we’d ask one of the women (who is close to a mutual friend) to stand on my side for the ceremony. All the women will wear bridesmaids dresses and hold bouquets. We have not officially asked them yet, but my 2 have rightfully assumed that they would be.
My question: should I make cute “will you be my bridesmaid?” boxes and mail them out or just casually ask on the phone? If I do boxes, should I do them for FIs side too, or let him handle it (he would just call and ask).