@Mrs McCain 2012:
That sounds like a great life to me! 🙂 I think I am more traditional as well, and well my mother herself was like that for many years until about 10 years back when she decided to start selling Avon, now she has her own office and all. I mean I like the idea of having my own extra money for whatever I want, but he tells me that if he has a good paying job that I wont have to worry about that because he will give me the money. We’ll see.
aww, well hopefully one day you both wont have to work and you can become a stay at home wife 🙂 have faith!
Thats what I’m worried about, but we talked about it and if his job doesnt pay enough, then he wont have a problem with me working as well. I really hope you soon get out of that gray area and your Fiance starts getting a better income 🙂 just give it some time, but it will happen! 🙂
The best of luck to your Fiance in securing that job! 🙂 And it sounds like you are going to have a great time staying at home haha but I agree with you about raising the kids the way you want, that becomes a bit harder IMO when both parents have to work. Fingers crossed for you both! 🙂
Ay I know how you feel about them working away, thats what Fiance wants. I hope he finds a good job near home where you wont have to work! Gotta have faith that it will happen 🙂
I hope I dont go insane lol. Oh and trust me I hate being away from him for that long, but I’ve done it before when hes gone away to work with my dad, I didnt get to see him for a whole month! It actually went by very quickly and I guess what made it a little better was that I was able to talk to him every day and when he had the chance I would skype with him 🙂 Now we both have iphones so we have facetime! The idea of you both working and hiring someone to do everything sounds great! One less thing you have to worry about lol I wish you guys the best of luck in both your careers! 🙂
Well at least you get a glimpse of what it might feel like when you have one of your own 🙂 I think with your job, you may leave for a while but never actually leave it because you become attached to all the kids you teach and all the things each one of them teaches you, I would think. When the time comes, whatever you feel in your heart, that will be the right choice to make 🙂 s
I completely get where you are coming from, and of course if you went that far for your degree of course you should get a job! & I respect you for being an independent woman who will work because like you said it will become harder if something were to happen down the road. & youre right it wouldnt be fair for you Fiance to pay for your student loans, I think since I didnt get any student loans thats why I’m ok with staying home, I am debt free. Youre mom has a point, I know if I were to get a job years later it would become a little harder, but because I have a degree I know it wouldnt be impossible to do.