(Closed) Will you/did you have sex on your wedding night?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Will you/did you have sex on your wedding night?
    We did, and it wasn't our first time : (75 votes)
    28 %
    We did, and it WAS our first time : (10 votes)
    4 %
    We didn't. : (35 votes)
    13 %
    We will, and it won't be our first time. : (98 votes)
    36 %
    We will, and it WILL be our first time. : (24 votes)
    9 %
    We probably won't. : (24 votes)
    9 %
    Other. : (4 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
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    2703 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    we probably won’t… we’d like to, but we’re both going to be exhausted and are already sexually active… so the “wedding night” isn’t as significant for us as others who may have waited.

    Post # 5
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    3564 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I would say it’s unlikely that we will, lol. I think we’re going to be tired and honestly, won’t want to put in the effort, lol.

    Post # 6
    Member
    2475 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I thought we would probably be too exhausted, but we did.

    Post # 7
    Member
    3295 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    we want to…. but it prolly wont happen. we will be tired and liqoured up haha!! maybe well just do it the night before… thatll do i think?

    Post # 8
    Member
    814 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    we did, but we were kinda drunk!!

    Post # 9
    Member
    571 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I had heard so many friends who got married say that their wedding night sex was the worst they ever had and they just felt obligated, so that was kind of what I was expecting (we’d been together for 8 years and living together for 3).  But, I got a good night of sleep before the wedding and so did he, and we were still on such a (metaphoric) high from the wedding that we had a great time.

    Post # 10
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    1523 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I fully plan on having sex on my wedding night! It won’t be a first time thing for us, but we’re going for it. I think it will be a nice way to end the day, that is if we are not nodding off at that point.

    Post # 11
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    120 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We haven’t had sex and we’re planning *not* to have sex our wedding night. I figure we’ve gone this whole time, so why do I want the first time to be when we’re both exhausted, a little tipsy and in some hotel in Kansas. I’d much rather be rested and in some place that’s a little more tranquil and picturesque, instead of caving to tradition.

    Post # 12
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    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    You gotta have sex on your wedding night!  Even of the short and quick variety.

    Post # 13
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    3613 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Everyone said we’d be too tired to do it, but we weren’t 🙂

    Post # 14
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    4001 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Can’t believe I’m sharing this on the internet but yea, we had sex.  It was far from my A game though, that’s for sure.  I was basically like your co-worker.  I sluggishly went to the bathroom to put on my lingerie, came out and was like, “let’s just do this”.  From what I remember, there was a series of minor, exhaustion induced mishaps, involving candles (as it turns out, hot wax isn’t sexy) and some rose petals.  We were so tired!  Lol.  We had had an after party that went too far!  I wasn’t even able sleep restfully anyway though, the excitment was still surging through me!  Ah well, we’ve made up for it. 

    Post # 15
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    2226 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    We talked about that to all of our married friends, and none of them did.  Most of the grooms were too drunk.  But, neither of us were drunk and we had a great time!

    Post # 16
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    1956 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

    We didn’t, haha…Waaaaay too drunk and didn’t go to bed until after 4:00 am! But we made up for it the following days 🙂

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