(Closed) Will you/did you have sex on your wedding night?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Will you/did you have sex on your wedding night?
    We did, and it wasn't our first time : (75 votes)
    28 %
    We did, and it WAS our first time : (10 votes)
    4 %
    We didn't. : (35 votes)
    13 %
    We will, and it won't be our first time. : (98 votes)
    36 %
    We will, and it WILL be our first time. : (24 votes)
    9 %
    We probably won't. : (24 votes)
    9 %
    Other. : (4 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 17
    1927 posts
    Buzzing bee

    No sex for us… we were EXHAUSTED.  But we made up for it in the morning before brunch : )

    Post # 18
    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I can’t imagine not having sex on our wedding night. I agree with some of the previous posts that it probably won’t be the best cause we will be exhausted but even though we are currently having sex, I just think it will be really special because it is our wedding.

    Post # 19
    7776 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I highly doubt we will. We will probably be far too tired and lazy.

    Post # 20
    10849 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    @jennifer_espos: LOL!!!! Hot wax…. That’s too funny! Kudos to you for getting up the energy to put on the lingerie!

    I’m figuring we likely won’t, or if we do, it’ll be of the exhausted variety. I’m not planning on bringing lingerie, for some reason I think him helping me out of my wedding gown is really sexy πŸ™‚  I’m saving the lingerie for the HM!

    Post # 21
    1080 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    I was exhausted and so was Darling Husband but he said he “was going to have sex with his wife!” It was too cute, so we had nice sex the night of, very nice πŸ˜‰

    Post # 22
    1288 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - Indiana Memorial Union

    Didn’t. I danced the entire night so by the time we got to our room, I was limping and hobbling. Lying in bed was painful. Mood killer πŸ™‚

    Post # 23
    2015 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    We didn’t. Hubs passed out drunk and I was exhausted. It was the first time we were both able to let loose after all the wedding planning, so we partied hard, and crashed hard. 

    We’d been living together for four years, though, so like, it wasn’t a big deal. We made up for it on our honeymoon.

    Post # 24
    7429 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    We did, we had an awesome ergo chair and a huge walk in shower so we definitely had some fun after the wedding! Kiss

    Post # 25
    454 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We probably won’t. I always party way hard at weddings. πŸ˜‰

    Post # 26
    96 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    We probably won’t… our after dinner party will go on till 3am. We’ll be both exhausted. *lol*

    Post # 27
    1206 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I thought we were going to be way too tired to have sex, I mean I got up at 6:00 am and we didn’t get to bed until after 1:30 am!  But we did, and it was awesome!  Haha….. All the stress from the last few months was gone, we had a huge king size bed to enjoy and we took advantage!  I even put on my bridal lingerie!  But since I had to be helped out of my dress, it wasn’t that big of a surprise….

    We had kind of planned to do it, but were taking a we’ll see what happens approach.  We already had in place the drink rule, one alcoholic beverage, then water, than back if you want.  But I didn’t drink much, I was dancing and having fun and was so thirsty all I wanted was water, so I wasn’t really even drunk, more buzzed than anything.

    It wasn’t our first time, and we were still having sex before the wedding. Actually we had sex the night before the night before our wedding!  Lol, but it was really great being Mr and Mrs on our wedding night.


    Post # 28
    1206 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    @jennifer_espos: – Haha… your post reminded me that before we got to our room, one of DH’s high school friends spread a bunch of rose petals on the floor and bed for us…. so sweet of him!

    Post # 29
    463 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    We were definitely way too tired to do it.  i had been up from 7am to 3am (the next day), so it didn’t happen.  We just saved it for the morning after πŸ™‚

    Post # 30
    5976 posts
    Bee Keeper

    We were also way too tired! I barely slept the night before and got up at 6am for my prep work! We also stayed out until about 4am between the hotel bar and people’s rooms, so we didn’t get to bed until after then…and I’m not going to lie, I was exhausted.

    We definitely made up for it on our honeymoon though :o)

    Post # 31
    2495 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    We’ve talked about waiting another night for the exhaustion reason.  We’re both virgins and I would rather not have my first time be a bad time just cause we’re exhausted…. buuuut we’ll see if that actually happens or not haha. πŸ™‚ 

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