(Closed) wine == horny?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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960 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I LOVE how I feel when I drink wine. It definitely gets me more in the mood so you are NOT alone in this at all. It seems perfectly fine to have a glass or two "just because." And hey, if it gets you ready for a lil somethin’ somethin’ then that’s great too. I would hope that he wouldn’t deny you just because you’ve had a glass or two of wine. Maybe when you’re sober you can bring it up somehow and let him know that it’s ok to have drunk sex (to be perfectly blunt.) Now, if you need a bottle of wine to get through your day to day life, that might be something to worry about. But it doesn’t seem like that is the case or that that is the direction you’re headed. Hmm…you’ve made me think about my choice of drink for dinner tonight

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

I am totally in the same boat as you. Drinking a little bit really puts me in the mood, and sometimes I will have a little drink specifically to put me in the mood. When you drink, how much does the amount you drink affect you? As in, how buzzed or drunk do you have to get before you start feeling sexy? I am a total lightweight and so a glass is enough for me. I am still entirely in control of my faculties, just a little less inhibited. If it is at this level I don’t think it’s a problem at all. If you have to get quite drunk to get it on, you might have more of a problem.

I would talk to your fiance about it when you’ve not been drinking. Just mention that when you have a glass of wine it really turns you on and so you would love if he’s feeling it too for something to happen between you two. Be casual about it. Let him know that he doesn’t have to be shy. But it’s important that he not get the impression that you need to drink to be attracted to him. So concentrate on showing affection when you’re not drinking too just so he doesn’t get any funny ideas after you’ve talked to him.

Post # 6
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Newbee

As long as you don’t need to drink wine everytime, that’s great! I`m the same way, and alcoholism runs in my family too. Usually 2 glasses puts me in that place. But I love the feeling of being so uninhibited. I agree with chelseamorning on how the broach the topic.

Post # 7
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631 posts
Busy bee

I am the same way and I think it’s ok!  It would be one thing if you were getting trashed in order to have sex, or if you couldn’t have sex without it.  But that doesn’t sound like the situation.  I just think of it as a mild aphrodisiac once in a while – and just tell your hubby it’s ok and you like it!  🙂

Post # 8
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883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

oooh – i am so a fan of 2 glasses of wine and then getting frisky!  For me, its just a short window because I go from Rarrring to go… to too sleepy to care in about 30 minutes.  My husband hates that!  We’ll be at a bar – i’ll whisper to him that I think we should go home and get lucky and then by the time we get home, I’m ready to be asleep and want nothing to do with being frisky.  Oops.  I need to work on my timing!

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I actually was prescribed wine for my sleeping disorders!!! My doctor said it is PERFECTLY FINE to have a glass (one glass) every night! One glass totally does it for me though. it makes me feel like an alcoholic having my four ounces about 5 days a week, but hey, she said it’s ok! And i always make sure never to pour more….alcoholism and addictive behavior runs in my family too.

Oh, mdarrah, been there done that! The next morning my Fiance always goes, "so, was it good for you?" and i’m like "uhhhhhhhh, oops" 

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