- 3 years ago
Mea Ajayi : Have you really sat down with your husband and explained to him how you feel? It seems like this is important to you. And just an fyi, a popular opinion here at this website is “you already had a wedding” which I disagree with. I understand that you probably agreed to have a courthouse wedding because you got caught in the moment. But if getting married in a church is really what you desire and believe in, I would try to compromise with him to have an affordable celebration afterwards with friends and family. Doing it on your 5 year mark seems like a good idea as PP have mentioned. My SO is European so I do understand that civil and church ceremonies are two separate things. We will be doing both actually. Do what makes you happy. Life is too short.