- 6 years ago
My fiance has asked a mutual friend of ours from college to be in our wedding-we will call him Ted. My Fiance has not stayed in constant contact with Ted since graduating from college, so I was a little surprised he wanted him in the wedding, but I did not say anything. Ted has known about our wedding for over 15 months now and has not put any effort into being a Groomsmen. He lives 4 hours away from us, but he never responded about coming to our engagement party and then for a surprise engagement party my sister threw for us, he said he was coming and never showed. He is not attending the bachelor party. My Fiance asked Ted if he did not want to be part of wedding (asking him if it was too hard because of distance), but he said he did. He takes forever to answer questions from Fiance or other GM’s and he hasnt gotten fitted for tux yet. I am annoyed at his behavior and really wish he wasnt in our wedding. I am scared he is somehow gonna screw up our wedding day (which is April 27). any advice bees?