- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I’m starting regret all of the decisions I have made thus far with the wedding. I really wish we would have just eloped. Things would have been so much easier and I would not have to worry about spending all this money and being rude, etc. It just sucks that the wedding is not about you. The only reason you do things is because of other people.
I wish I could take back who I sent Save the Dates to. I’m starting to freak out that we are going to have more people than our venue can hold. Our guest list is 121, not counting us, and the venue can only hold 100. I didn’t even know we were making a mistake. I feel like crying. Also, Future Mother-In-Law has more people to add. I thought that my Fiance and her already worked that all out weeks ago. My Fiance and his mom think that most his family will not come because its half way across the country and we are hosting a post reception here for them, but I am still worried. I think I will be sick until RSVPs come back. I feel bad not allowing some people to bring dates who are single or not allowing children.
But it is too late now to go back. We can’t cancel the wedding after we’ve sent out Save-The-Date Cards and booked all of our vendors. I just really wish we were only having immediate family, then using our money to go to Costa Rica. But maybe I am feeling this way because I am worried about too many people coming or being rude for not allowing ppl to bring kids or dates if they are single.
**Sorry for the vent**