(Closed) With all the “bad bridesmaid” stories out there…

posted 11 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
7691 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

THats awesome!!! That is above and beyond IMO! If I were a bridesmaid I would try to be as helpful as possible without being overbearing….you learn a lot about being a bridesmaid when you are a bride!

Post # 4
143 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I love this thread ๐Ÿ™‚ I have some amazing bridesmaids too! And My Maid/Matron of Honor is absolutely a lifesaver!!!! I am so thankful for all of them. (I have 5 bridesmaids + MOH). They threw an AWESOME shower 2 weeks ago followed by an absolutely perfect bachelorette party. not to mention all but 12 of them live out of state! Even with that obstacle they have all been very supportive and have gone out of their way to make sure pre-wedding things go my way. I am sure I have picked the best group of girls to be with me on my wedding day and will make the day fun and as care-free as possible. No bad bridesmaid stories here! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
941 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m so happy to hear a positive story like that!  And it’s so wonderful that you have a great friend whose helping you out as much as she is. 

I have to say that I too am lucky enough to be surrounded by supportive people.  Only one of my Bridesmaid or Best Man lives in NYC (actually she’s my roomate, so I do see her a lot), though I have to say her, as well as everyone else, has been super awesome and helpful.  My Maid/Matron of Honor especially has taken on the job of doing all the scary things I hate to do–namely making phone calls–and took the time to call multiple bridal stores in the area and find one that’ll order my dress for ridiculously cheap.  She’s also contacted DJs (a task I found to be especially daunting), given me ENDLESS opinions on the many many things I ask of her, and has not waived in her excitement at all.

Even though I feel like I’ve gotten the most help from her, I’m lucky that everyone else has been willing to help and be there for support (the biggest issue is figuring out what I need help with).  But my favorite story of support…I managed to do my first dress shopping day with my entire wedding party and my mom, which was awesome.  And everytime I came out in a new dress, everyone applauded.  It was definitely very silly, and at the same time made me feel very special, and loved.  ๐Ÿ™‚ 

So yay for awesome and supportive people!  They deserve 80 thumbs up!  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Congratulations!  It’s nice to hear a story like that and I hope the rest of your maids are the same way.  From my experience as the bride and from being a maid in others, there is always one in the group that has be the pain. 

Post # 9
10216 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

I don’t have a moh, because I couldn’t decide…. I love them all too much..

My cousin has called me to see exactly what I wanted for a bridesmaids shower/bachelorette party. I mentioned something abt a spa day and she instantly agreed.

The same cousin called me to say that she had found the most perfect bm dresses at Ann Taylor’s for 26 on sale and bought them for her and I gave her the money to buy them for my sister….

The same cousin calls me all the time to say how awesome it is that I took the time to find hotel rooms for my guests at the best rates, how I let them pick out their own dresses and how excited she will be to wear it again, and how thoughtful the brunch wedding is because my guests still get to enjoy their weekend after my wedding.

My fsil (another bm) is coming to the wedding city three days early to help with last minute things.

My little sister (third bm) is sooo excited and calls me about her shoe choices (I love shoes!!!) And she just keeps saying I want the shoes to be perfect. Her son is also one of my ring bearers and she calls me about what I want him to wear and basically she has just been giddy and excited.

I am lucky to say that I haven’t had any crazy bridal party moments. Everyone has been amazing.

Post # 10
277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My Maid/Matron of Honor was so awesome!  Not only did she made my veil and flew to Vegas for my bachlorette party.  In my pro pics there’s a picture of her fixing a curl in my hair as I was facing talking to my Husband!  I never knew that she did that!

Post # 11
233 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

 That is wonderful! Yay for your fabulous bridesmaids and good for you for making a point to show her off to everyone. Very nice!

Post # 12
11324 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I’m another super lucky one!

Maid/Matron of Honor: lives across the country from me but we chat daily about wedding stuff and she is endlessly interested and asking good questions and helping me online research. She is also co-hosting my shower with my mom (challenging from over a thousand miles/way!) and planning a bachelorette party for me MLK weekend so she can spend three whole days up here!

BM-K: also non-local but she came to my city to go bridesmaid dress shopping and checks in with me about how things are going. She is attending my shower and flying in for my bachelorette too, and she has offered to take the week before my wedding off to fly in and help me with last minute projects

BM-A: the only local bridesmaid, went bm dress shopping, asks me how its going, has helped me with a few nights of crafting, is helping Maid/Matron of Honor to organize the bachelorette (being the only local one), and also bought me my wedding shoes without me knowing it because she knew I loved them but was hemming and hawing over the price! 

Seriously, how did I get so lucky?

Post # 13
1221 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You are SO lucky. While I loved one of my three girls during planning, she’s under 20 and still in school so really couldn’t do much for me. The other two sucked and I still resent them. You obviously know how great you have it, let her know! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 15
5117 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

That’s awesome! That is how bridesmaids are supposed to make you feel. So far my girls have been amazing even though we’ve got a long engagement to go. The day after I called all of my friends to share the engagement news, one of my bridesmaids (but she didn’t know it, we hadn’t selected our Bridal Party yet) brought me 3 bridal magazines and a planning book and the sweetest card ever. Now that themes/colors/plans are starting to come along, one of my other maids called from her vacation telling me that she’d found (and purchased) some peacock feathers since they’re in my theme! All of them keep checking in and offering good ideas or great deals, etc. It’s nice to hear ‘best bridesmaids’ stories sometimes, because some of the bad bridesmaids stories have been frightening! 

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