YAY I found our Vows!!! Here they are: kinda long but I really really liked them!
Profession of Vows
To Groom: _____________, do you take ____________ as your wife, as your own
flesh, to love her even as Christ loves the Church, to protect her and care for
her for the rest of your lives?
Response: I do
Then turn to her and make this profession of your faith:
I, ___________, according to the Word of God, leave my father and my mother
and I join myself to you, to be a husband to you.
From this moment forward. we shall be one.
To Bride: __________, do you take __________ as your husband, submitting
yourself to him as unto the Lord, showing yourself to him as unto the Lord,
showing respect to him as the head of this union for the rest of your lives?
Response: I do
Then turn to him and make this profession of your faith:
I, ___________, according to the Word of God, submit myself to you, to be a
wife to you. From this moment forward, we shall be one flesh.
Presentation of Rings
To Groom: May I have the Bride’s ring please.
A ring is a very precious thing a token of your faith and your love. This ring is
made out of precious metal. It is a never-ending circle that indicates the
continuing love of God – a love that never fails, never presents itself haughty
or puffed up. The love of God and faith of God is what causes His power to
move in our lives.
I want you to wear these rings as a continual reminder of your faith, a
continual reminder of the confession of faith you have made to each other
and to God.
To Groom: Take this ring and place it on her finger, and say to her: (repeat part)
With this ring I thee wed, It is a token of my love for you that I give now, in
To Bride: May I have the Groom’s ring, please.
To Groom: A ring can mean two different things, It can be a never-ending sign of
love, or it can be a shackle, I am going to charge you with a memory you
should remember always: This woman stands by your side, not under your
feet. You have the responsibility of being the head of this union. You have
spiritual responsiblity . I want you to wear this ring in remembrance that she
is your helpmate. It must never be a shackle of dominance, but always a
reminder of faith and love.
To Bride: I want you to place this ring on his finger with these things in mind.
There is no place in God’s Word that give people the right to dominate one
another. Your vows have stated that you submit to one another in the
responsibilities of this life, expecting God and His power to always make the
difference. So place this ring on his finger, as you do, say to him:
With this ring, I thee wed, I give it as a token of my faith. I believe with all
my heart that this is forever. It is my love & faith, in the Name of Jesus.
Then we had the pronouncement, kiss, and then had a worship song where we
actually stopped and just worshipped God together and then took communion, and
then prayed over us and gave a blessing according to Dueteronomy 28:1-14