(Closed) Witness and “should probably be a bridesmaid” question

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would just ask them each to do a brief reading during the ceremony. Or since they’re married, maybe they could do a reading together. That could be really cute.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

If I was asked a month before someone’s wedding to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man I wouldn’t think that would be weird at all(unless I was asked after another Bridesmaid or Best Man dropped out lol). You can just tell them that they have helped you so much and you feel that you have really gotten close to them and that to thank them you would like to include them as BMs.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think it is completely normal for social circles to change a little bit before a wedding, especially if there is a big move involved. I also think, since your fiance’s brother’s wife seems to be very familiar with the wedding planning process, she will completely understand why she didn’t get asked originally to be a bridesmaid. I had a friend like that who I ended up asking to help me as a day of coordinator. I also recognized her in the program. I think no matter what you decide to do, as long as you tell her how much you appreciate her help, that she won’t be offended. 🙂

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Haha. Totally just realized I misread the original post. I thought you were referring to your FI’s brother and his wife. 🙂

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