- 5 years ago
So we’re both laying in the sun by the pool and this gorgeous girl comes up and asks my Boyfriend or Best Friend if she could tan next to him. He says, sure. So she lays down her towel and some of her other crap and proceeds to undo her bikini top so she could tan without getting any lines.
Okay, why can’t she tan some place else? Nobody’s at the pool. It’s like having someone sit right next to you at the movie theater when nobody else is there. Ugh. Whatever.
Then this girl tries making small talk with him. She’s pretty, he’s naturally flirty, so I can already see where this is going. After about 20 minutes, I was getting a little pissed so I told him we’re going swimming. Guess who decides to join us? So now she thinks we’re BFF’s. Okay, cool. Keep your friends close but your enemies closer, right?
The day goes on, we finally get away from her for a little while and that’s when I told him that she was driving me nuts. He says she’s just being, “Friendly.” No, she’s not. I’m a girl, I would know. I told him she was crushing on him so he says he’ll try to ignore her.
We go back to laying by the pool and here she comes again. She starts making comments about how she needs to lose some weight (eye roll) and wishes she had abs like his and is asking him all kinds of fitness related questions. I’m just sitting there downing one drink after another. I can’t stand this girl.
Finally, as we were getting ready to leave, she asks if she could get our #’s so that we could hang out sometime. I’m not naturally a bitch so of course, we gave her our #’s.
As we were going home, I told my boyfriend that we will NOT be hanging out with her. She only asked for “our” numbers so she could get “his” number. He thinks she’s innocent and cool and that we should hang out with her. Nope. Not gonna happen.
How do you even deal with girls like this? She’s extremely nice, which makes it hard for me to be a bitch towards her.
EDIT: Okay, I’ve gotten quite a few PM’s. I think you guys are right, I probably overreacted. I know I have jealousy issues and that’s something my bf and I have talked about in the past. I think counseling would probably help me with this.