Post # 1
I have a feeling that my boyfriend is going to propose to me when we are in Mexico. it will be our 1 year anniversery. I am 25 and he is 32. I told him that I wont move in with anyone until we are married. He recently started talking about how he wanted to move accross the country with me, i told him that i would but that certain things needed to happen first and he said that he knew that. He constantly brings up us moving. I reminded him that certain things need to take place and he said he knew and i asked when do you want to plan on moving, he said 18 months(which makes me believe he would ask within 6 months) we leave for Cancun in 2 weeks.
Last weekend i told him that i dont want to discuss us moving anymore until we discuss the other items he said that he would love to talk about it. we just havent had the right moment yet i guess.
He doesnt know my ring size or what i want. All my friends think he is going to do it. We havent Actually really talked about mariage yet but its pretty implied.I feel like he is almost messing with me in a way. Also he has been a little weird about money lately. Which is very odd as well. He said he wanted to open a savings account for our move. There are too many small items that i have noticed to list but this is the just of it.
Let me know your thoughts. Did you have any idea he was going to propose?
I just think if he was going to do it Mexico would be the perfect time…
Post # 3
I’m sure he has to be planning something,with all of his talk about moving and stuff! If he truly is respecting your wishes about being married first, I wouldn’t put it past him to propose on this special occasion. Although I will say, don’t get your hopes up in advance! He might let you down and you should be able to enjoy your trip regardless!
Let us know what happens!
Post # 4
Sounds like he just might. 😉
But don’t keep thinking about it, just enjoy the trip!
Post # 5
sounds like he might!
i agree with pp, enjoy your trip and try not to get your hopes up.
proud of you for standing your ground on the moving thing – sometimes that is just the push they need to get them to realize what is important to them.
good luck! and let us know what happens either way!
Post # 6
Try to put it out of your head. You won’t enjoy your vacation and you’ll be super disappointed if it doesn’t happen.
Post # 7
So we are leaving on Saturday! And we had the “talk” last weekend summed up pretty much we will be engaged within 4-6 months and then plan our wedding and move in together……Now I feel like it would be perfect timing for him to do it since we JUST had the talk he wouldnt think that im expecting it at all…he has no idea about what i am thinking in the slightest….but he doesnt know my ring size or anything……still unsure about if it will happen i have a good feeling but i am not letting it mess with my vacation i will be happy either way especially since i know its happening soon now! We will see!! Thanks
Post # 8
I say keep your fingers crossed but expectations low. I thought my SO was going to propose on our last trip to spain.. but no go 🙁
Post # 9
I’m old school. If you want that proposal, just tell him. If he really loves you, he will not Flintstone it out of the door. You can give a timeline so you will be suprised.
I hope it works out for you and last forever.
Post # 10
Like the other girls said- manage your expectations to avoid dissapointment to be wise. But I think you have every reason to be excited too- i think he is going to propose!!