- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2011
I have a stepdad, who is my only father figure; he’s always been “Dad”.
Fiance has a stepdad, been around since he was 2 years old. Fiance has always called him “J___”, never dad always has said “this is my stepdad J__”; and he honestly loves & respects his stepdad like a father!
So my mom is married to my stepdad.
FI’s mom is not married to his stepdad, so I guess he was never really a “stepdad” by technicality but since Fiance has 3 younger half-siblings, J__ has always been known as “Stepdad or J__”.
We are doing our own invites, and Im beginning to look up/research wording for the invites. How the heck do I honour or give recognition to ALL these parents in our lives, but at the same time do it respectfully/correctly!
This is what I’ve used for reference so far!
Any help or words of wisdom/experience is more than welcome and appreciated!
**Also, Fiance and I are paying for this wedding on our own. So I understand its not necessary, but its something we wanted to do for our parents.**