- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
Hi bees, I just wanted to get your opinion on something. When two of my bridesmaids offered to throw a bridal shower for me, I was hesitant! I don’t really want to open gifts in front of people. However, I finally agreed and when they asked for the guest list, I included women from my side of the family, women from my fiance’s side of the family, and friends from work. I now live and work two hours away from where the bridal shower is going to be. I have worked at my job for over two years now.
Anyway, was I wrong for putting them on the guest list knowing they would have to drive that far? Because today I found out that work decided to throw me a shower at work instead because they don’t want to drive that far. Now I feel bad for “putting them in this situation” at all. Also, I’m not sure how they’re really handling the shower but almost everyone at school knows I’m getting married next month but not everyone is invited. I feel like if people I didn’t invite attend and give a gift for the shower, it is going to put me in an awkward spot for not inviting them.
What should I do? Am I overthinking this?