(Closed) worried about everyone but me!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
514 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@blossomdearie:  I definately understand where you are coming from, I am a people pleaser. I would just make sure that the people closest to you are happy with the big things: food, venue, timing, etc. Otherwise, if you are footing the bill, to bad for them. At a point, you just have to forget about other people’s wants (to an extent) and focus on what is going to please you and your Fiance. As for the party situation, I would just ask the Bridal Party if they would be ok with skipping it (as long as you are really ok with that) because you are worried about all the traveling it would require. if they still want to, you have to let them and not worry about it.

Post # 4
1654 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@blossomdearie:  I think you’re being really sweet in being considerate of other people. However, in order to be Zen, you’ve just got to stop overthinking and do what you believe is best in your gut. My Fiance and I come from different cultures, different parts of the country, I also fear that I’d make other people unhappy through something we did. However, by keeping the focus of the day on us getting married has led me to drop most things that I don’t care about, because honestly, many things, people do NOT notice at the end of the day. It’s liberating. Seriously!


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