(Closed) Worried about FI

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 331
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436 posts
Helper bee

Ugh, how I wish this thread would die. Clearly the OPs fiancé lied and was more than likely cheating (or thinking about it, at the very least) on her. That’s 99% obvious to anyone who has followed this thread. OP is either too naive to realize it AND/OR just simply doesn’t want to admit it to herself (or us). Both explanations are equally as frustrating, baffling and pathetic… Soooo, why keep searching for answers either way. Can we please move on now?

Post # 332
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978 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

 Just read through all 23 pages of this pathetic mess God some women are SO dumb and make it so easy for men to cheat. OP your a door mat. Congrats!

Post # 333
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522 posts
Busy bee

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msformaldehyde:  Not really sure it’s fair to call her dumb. Naive, sure. Maybe she’s full of wishful thinking who would rather not see what’s going on. It’s just catty and unnecessary to say she’s dumb and made it easy for him. 

It’s her life, leave it the hell alone. 

Post # 334
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2478 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Most often I get really irritated when the OP just closes a thread and leaves people hanging. But this is an exception. Despite pages of drama, it’s quite clear that we’re never going to be let into any more information. So please, OP, if you can’t or won’t update and fill in the blanks, just close the whole thing. That way you don’t have to return to tell us you won’t tell us anything and we won’t waste time revisiting the topic. Life has clearly moved on for you. It’s time, in my humble opinion, that this thread did too. To the graveyard of dead threads. 

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Post # 335
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978 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

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busybee3791:  Yes it’s her life…and she’s dumb.

Post # 338
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177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I just want to know where that amazing honeymoon is?

Post # 341
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1502 posts
Bumble bee

OP you came to a wedding website full of women who care about relationships, and cried a loud-ass plea for caring and support when you were scared sh*tless about your relationship. These women all just want to make sure you’re not hurt and don’t have the wool pulled over your eyes.  Yes this is your life and your business but YOU SHARED your pain and suffering with us so wonen here are going to CARE that nothing bad happens to you.

Your behavior at the end was incredibly disrespectful and condescending. There is NO reason for you to take a “high and lofty” attitude about your relationship in the end and be so f*ing rude.   Seriously, if this is the way you treat people when you’re no longer in pain and fear, than don’t be surprised the next time something bad happens to you again with your man and you come here crying for caring and support that no one gives a damn anymore.

Post # 344
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1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

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Anna10-05-2014:  From what I understand, the only way to close a thread with the new format is to ask a mod to do so but they seem less than responsive. 

Post # 345
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470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Even if the OP finds out he was actually cheating on her, the last place she would admit that would be here, because then she would just get 100 messages saying ‘I told you so!!!’ and who would wish that upon themselves? 

 

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