(Closed) Worried about FI

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 92
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Assuming he IS ok, this would NOT fly with me. When you get in touch with him, you need to make him understand that this is NOT OK!!!! I freak out if Fiance doesn’t respond to me after like an hour and I know he’s in the car or otherwise moving about. I know I’m a bit of a worrier, but after 30 hours I think would have called the cops!

I hope you hear from him soon and straighten him out. You should definitely call his work if you don’t hear from him soon! Do you know anyone he works with? Maybe you could send a casual email or make a call to someone you know specifically so that you don’t alarm everyone at the company or embarass him by checking in. Although at this point, I wouldn’t really be concerned with his feelings.

Post # 93
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Bumble bee

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@MrsStayPuft:  

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@BellaDee:  

+1

 

ETA:  I thought my xDH wasn’t that type of person. And I had all the confidence in the world with our 10 year marriage, 15 year relationship.  Didn’t seem like he was cheating, for like….a  year….but he was.  Just sayin’.   Can’t wait to hear his excuse as to why he hasn’t texted or called you.  Even a bathroom break to check his phone?  Sounds like he’s ignoring you. 

 

Post # 95
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

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@Anna10-05-2014:  Glad you have so much faith in your Fiance.  The cheating thing would only be something I jumped to if I had prior reason to believe, which you obviously don’t.  

I’d still be super worried.  You need to call his office NOW.  Someone on that trip has at least contacted the office.  They’ll know if he’s safe.  In your last update you said I know he would text/call if he could.  Unless he’s a Park Ranger or something in remote regions, he has access to some way to communicate with you.  Maybe not his cell, but he has to know that after 30 hours you’ve tried to contact him.  

If he’s fine and just “forgot” to contact you, his ass would be on a platter when he gets home if he were my DH!

Post # 96
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

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@Anna10-05-2014:  OP, I’m confused. If you’re so sure that everything is OK, you’re convinced that there is nothing fishy going on, and that he will conatct you when he can . . . then why did you even create this post? 

Post # 97
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Blushing bee

Did you try calling his destination hotel/location landline, instead of his cell – which could be dead, or he could have been exhausted and went to sleep…? I can understand you must be worried, and I wouldn’t jump to conclusion about his fidelity 🙂 Just trying getting in touch with him another way, if phone isn’t working. 

 

 

 

Post # 98
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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@wahine777:  Well she didn’t know the plane landed safely when she made the post. Besides, she is just looking for online girl friends comfort!

Post # 99
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

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@rickhurst35:  Agreed.  My ex-husband one day went to go visit friends for the evening and didn’t come back.  No response to my phone calls or text messages.  I finally heard from him 2 days later telling me he would not be back that weekend.  He never came back home.  Like, ever.  I mean, he came by and grabbed some clothes and things, but he brought his new girlfriend with him.  

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@wahine777:  +1.  

Post # 100
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

OP if you are positive nothing fishy is going on, I would probably call his work sooner than later, because the only other reasonable explanation for not hearing from him, is that something has happened which physically prevents him from contacting you. I don’t mean to upset you, but at this point I would be concerned about a car accident, medical emergency, etc, especially since you have said it is out of the norm for him to go missing like this. 

Post # 102
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

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@Anna10-05-2014:  WHY ARE YOU WAITING!??!?!?!?  

Post # 103
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

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@Anna10-05-2014:  Please call before his VB office closes….

Post # 105
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

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@Anna10-05-2014:  I know girl!  I wouldn’t jump to cheating either.  He’d be in trouble for not thinking to contact me.

 

Post # 106
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Bumble bee

I hope he’s safe, and that you hear from him soon, OP!  Safety would be my primary concern. 

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