(Closed) Worried that my best friend (bridesmaid) dislikes me :-(

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
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684 posts
Busy bee

Why do you bother with her? It seems as though she is purposely avoiding you in hopes that you will go away. If she replies weeks after you text her, and doesn’t answer the phone after just messaging you all the time then dont bother. Do you really want someone like her in your wedding party so you can look at the photos 5 years from now and you haven’t spoken since? This same thing happened to me with a friend of mine and I just stopped sending messages and we never spoke again. If she wants to contact you let her contact you. Otherwise save yourself the grief. She is not acting like a best friend. 

Post # 19
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2697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

amanda3334455:  +1.

Same thing happened with me, I had a Bridesmaid or Best Man that was acting weird and avoiding me, then it turned out it was because she couldn’t be in the bridal party and thought I would be mad at her.

cat89:  It for sure sounds like something is up… especially if she’s ‘too busy’, but still goes out all the time. Talk to her in a positive/concerned way. If she does get defensive, it’s because she feels guilty for being a shitty friend.

Post # 20
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2697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

cat89:  Whoops, just saw you already msged her. Good luck!

Post # 21
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178 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

cat89:  Is she jealous you’re getting married and not her? I know I was feeling very upset that a dear friends of mind got engaged before me even though I’d been with Fiance twice as long as my friend with hers. I tried to be happy for her but it was hard to face her or pretend not to be sad. Maybe she’s going through a hard time with her relationship? 

Post # 22
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1059 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Loft

cat89:  didn’t even read the post. Stopped at the part where you said doing well in highschool is a must to be a bridesmaid. Awful.

Post # 23
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3089 posts
Sugar bee

cat89:  good luck! Let us know how it turns out!!

She is acting very odd.

Post # 25
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1720 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

cat89:  Did she say anything about her behavior or did she just get defensive?

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