- 4 years ago
how romantic !! I love it.
how romantic !! I love it.
LadyCapricorn: What an amazing proposal you have planned!! I wouldn’t be sitting at the table when she comes in… She might figure out what’s going on during your romantic scavenger hunt. If you’re not at the table, then she’ll come in still thinking, “ok… is this it?” and then you can suprise her once again. Come up from behind her with flowers 🙂
LadyCapricorn: That does sound a bit complicated I’m afraid. Is there any chance you’d considering eloping or having a very, very small wedding? We did that and it was the.best.ever. I had a big wedding the first time around and of course I loved it, but I have to say, the small, intimate gathering was even more wonderful.
Personally, I would be happy to elope or have a small intimate wedding. Unfortunately, that would cause massive problems in both families and the fallout would not be worth it. Also, more importantly, she really wants a larger wedding. I am happy just marrying her. As long as I get to wear a dress and stand up there with her, I’ve gotten what I wanted.
Your proposal sounds like it will be wonderful! I’m sure it’s totally normal to be nervous, even when you’re sure it’s what you want. 🙂
Ok, it’s after midnight on Saturday and I can’t sleep. I’ve been all keyed up for days now. I did my walkthrough Thursday. They’re calling for beautiful weather tomorrow. I concocted a plan with her mentor to get her to the department at the right time and it seems to be working, although it is so hard not to give it away! She wanted to reschedule her “meeting” so she didn’t have to go in on my day off (sweet, but completely the opposite of what I need!) and feels a little bummed out that she has to do something in the afternoon/evening and I keep reassuring her that I don’t mind her going in, but I can’t tell her why!
I have no idea how I am going to act normally all day until 4, let alone fall asleep tonight.
Take a deep breath and relax. However you propose, it’s going to end beautifully. Good luck and congrats.
Breathe. Just breathe. And ask. 😉 everything else will work itself out. Yes, we are strangers on the internet… but we are here for you no matter the issue. You’ve got a group 10k strong backing you up. So ask her, and know we are here when it gets overwhelming. As it does, for everyone. We love and support you. So does you family!!!
I did it! Update here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/i-proposed-last-night-2/
Erhmagerd!!! Congratulations :D:D:D:D
I was wanting to hear an update for this, followed the link, and such a beautiful unique proposal it made me teary-eyed- in a good way! Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness together. 🙂
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