(Closed) Worrying about my dad. :-( Did I do something wrong?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Aw, sweety its not your fault!  Even if he is sick, it has nothing to do with anything you’ve put on him.  I’m sure he wants nothing more than the “burden” of providing you with everything you want for you special day!  Its possible that he’s stressed about the money (I believe we discussed in the other post that we’re ALL stressed about dinero!!), which can wear anyone down a bit, but don’t feel guilty.  More importantly, he needs to be taking care of himself.  Not doing so is what makes him more suseptible to being sick more often and for greater lengths of time.  Don’t worry about the money, I’m sure he knew what his limitations were, he most likely does have the money, he just doesn’t realize that certain professionals can be difficult when it comes to paying them on time. 

Post # 4
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I agree that it isn’t you fault, it sort of sounds like he hasn’t been taking care of himself lately.  I think that if he couldn’t pay for it, he would have told you.

Post # 6
2788 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I don’t think its your fault, but he might be feeling some stress with the money aspect (but as Jennifer said – who isn’t?!)

In terms of his taking care of himself, maybe if you told him how much you care for him and that his habits are concerning you, he might be more receptive to at least going to the doctor?

I hope your Dad feels better and you too! It must be so hard to be far away from him when your worried about him like this.

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