(Closed) Worse news ever =c

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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609 posts
Busy bee

I found out a few weeks ago my Grandmother, the only grandparent I have left or was close with, has terminal cancer. 

I’m sorry for the pain, and I don’t think anything I can say will make it better. Sometimes, when people we admire have to go through pain like this, we think it is a punishment more deserved for the ones we hate. Try not to think this way. Good luck.  

Post # 4
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263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Sorry that you’re going through this 🙁 Spend as much time together as you can, and cherish it. One of my biggest regrets in life is not getting to say goodbye to my dad (strained relationship once my parents divorced.)

 

You’re in my thoughts as is the rest of your family.

Post # 5
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9198 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@myluverbuny:  ((HUGS))  I’m so sorry 🙁  It sounds like he was blessed by having a wonderful loving family, you included.  I hope you can spend more time with him and the family before he passes.  I’m sure his wife and son would really appreciate hearing from you and spending time with you, too.  xoxo

Post # 6
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4371 posts
Honey bee

@myluverbuny:  I am so so sorry. I just want to give you a great big virtual ***HUG***.

 

Post # 7
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965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Oh this just hurts my heart to read.  I am so very sorry that you are going through this.  I can’t say that I know or understand what you’re going through, but I can only imagine the hurt and pain that you must be feeling based on what I watched my grandad go through (he died a year ago from ALS).  You are in my thoughts and prayers, as is this family.  I agree with PP…spend as much time as you possibly can in these last days, months, etc.  Soak up every last second and, as difficult as it may be, try to make happy memories in those moments you have left.  Above all, try to focus on the good that this man has brought into your life and the happiness that you can look back on because he was alive.  ((Hugs))

Post # 8
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9082 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Blood is thicker than water. You do not need to share DNA to be a parent or a family member.

I am sending you and yours all the best.

Post # 9
Member
428 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m so sorry! Even though I’m sure you knew his illness would come to this, it’s still hard to hear the word “terminal”. I hope you’re able to treasure the time you have left with this wonderful man!

Post # 10
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2023 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I am praying for you and your family!

Post # 11
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3766 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

*hug*

I lost my Grandma a little over three years ago to cancer. It was heartwrenching, she was practically my mom because she pretty much raised me (my mom was a teenager). Cherish the time you have left, and if he passes before the wedding know that he will still be there, but in a different way. I was dreading having feelings of loss not having my Grandma there on my wedding day, but it was ok. I kept feeling her presense in different ways, like the rain that fell, her pearls around my neck, and our ceremony in general.

Post # 12
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4574 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@myluverbuny:  SOrry this is happening to him, I cant even imagine how it would feel when someone you are so close to and you love so much is about to live you forever…it must be such awful thing to go though, not only for you but his family as well….(((HUGS)))

Post # 13
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9550 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m so so sorry. I don’t know what else to say. That totally sucks. The only advice that I have is to make sure you tell him how much you love and appreciate him. And his whole family. And I’ll keep you and him and his family in my thoughts.

Post # 14
Hostess
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I’m so sorry! Sending you hugs, prayers, and comforting thoughts during this tough time. 🙁

Post # 16
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10453 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

I’m so sorry for you! Your post was incredibly sweet, I think one of the nicest things you can do for this family is let them know exactly what you just told us (if you haven’t already). I bet that would be super special to them and you can all help each other through this. 

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