Post # 1
Fiance and I had the WORST argument we’ve ever had last night and I honestly don’t know what’s going to happen from this point on 🙁
so scared and uncertain.. it all started over the dumbest thing too then it escalated.. I’m so frustrated that it escalated the way it did because it started over the dumbest thing 🙁
don’t know what to do… I just feel like this past month has been a rollercoaster and either things are perfect or horrible …
Post # 3
Hopefully time will help both of you calm and work it out. I’ve been married over 10 years and together with my hubby for 12 and we’ve had nasty, nasty arguments and always work them out in the end, even if it takes too long sometimes. Oh, and some of our arguments started over the dumbest things also. If you love each other, you will get through this.
Wish you and your fi the best in making up soon!
Post # 4
would you like to share more? what was the arguement about?
either way, good luck. Sometimes it’s GOOD to argue, esp since it sounds like you both may have had a bit of pent up energy. Very cleansing!
Post # 5
Don’t worry, just relax get your thoughts together and talk to him. You two love each other and I am sure you can work it out.
Post # 6
You two will work things out. Can’t give up over one argument.
Post # 7
@Mrs.Lotus: thank you. sharing about your marriage gives me hope.
@WILLIAKELLLB: we were at our friend’s party, she’s very close to both of us, and she said a not very nice comment about one of FI’s good friend. So Fiance got all worked up and yelled at our friend, so my friend ran to the bathroom crying so I went after her to comfort her, then I came back and yelled at my Fiance and said he was wrong for yelling at our friend over a dumb comment. (I realize I was wrong here I shouldn’t have come out and yelled at him and said he was wrong in front of everyone) then from that point on we just kept arguing then we left the party to not keep arguing in front of people and we argued in the car and old things were brought up that shouldn’t have been. things that I have done but that I have taken full responsibility for and apologized and in the past Fiance said he did accept my apologies and forgave me.. I am just so disappointed we both behaved in front of our friends like that.. I’m so embarrased of the way we both behaved. 🙁 never again.
I’m also extremely disappointed of the way we treated each other last night.