(Closed) WORST DATE EVER?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

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@SaucyMcgee:  

I know, me too. I just looked at him and said said “you must go now.”

Post # 18
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Bump! Anymore from the daytime bees?

Post # 19
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Bee Keeper

I went on a date where the guy made me pay for the ONE glass of iced tea I drank. I dont drink alcohol do I ordered this instead and when the bill came he told me how much the drink was. I was shocked! It was like $3!!! Lets just say I never saw him again!!!!

Post # 20
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I don’t know… I have 2 worsts that are tied for me.

I went on a blind date that a friend of mine set up with a college guy friend of hers.  I was in high school at the time.  This guy took me to a frat party that was just a bunch of drunk people acting slutty and then wondered why I wanted to go home early…. then on the way home he tried to pressure me into coming over to his house (that was empty – parents were away somewhere) for ‘dinner’…  Yeah… that didn’t end well or in a 2nd date and very nearly ended with me walking home.

2nd one was a date I went on with a guy from a class I was taking.  He was a typical guy who thought that women only ordered salads to impress the guys with how little they were eating rather then thinking that perhaps it’s what the lady really likes…  ugh.  I HATE that attitude since I LOVE salad!  Trust me, when I go to Olive Garden and order the salad, I’m NOT going to end up looking like a dainty little flower who hardly eats anything.  This guy actually forced me to have some of his dinner because of his thoughts on salad…  Again… no 2nd date.  If you can’t respect my choices for DINNER, then that tells me a lot about how a relationship would be.

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Well my worst date ever I didn’t even realize was a date until too late. I had just started working at a new job and this guy and I both were still staying in temporary housing while we looked for places. So we decided to grab dinner together since we both otherwise would have been eating out alone. Or so I thought. Apparently he thought we were on a date. During dinner things we fine just friendly, but somehow he ended up back watching family guy (of all things) in my living room. (He asked to borrow my dvd, I don’t remember how it ended up watching it at my place instead).

While we were watching TV he kept sliding close to me, and trying to hold my hand. By the end of the night I was clutching a chapstick in my had like a protective talisman and he was literally trying to pry my fingers away from it in order to hold my hand. Needless to say we never hung out alone again. 

Looking back on it I should have known he thought it was a date, but I had just gotten out of a 4 year relationship with my highschool boyfriend and was still really new to the whole dating world. But it was pretty weird to hang out with him still since he was part of a group of coworkers that all became friends. We never did talk about that dinner again…

Post # 22
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

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@LadyInGreen:  Ugh!  That’s just horrible and creepy.  >.<

Post # 23
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I went on a date with a guy I met online. We had emailed back and forth for awhile before we went to dinner. Everytime he got a text or email he answered it. About halfway through dinner he says, “I don’t think we were ever formally introduced. What was your name?” although we finished the dinner the date was pretty much over at that point!!

Post # 24
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Buzzing bee

I was 17 and in my senior year of HS.  My good friend at the time had just started dating her first serious boyfriend.  She really wanted to hook me up with her bf’s friend, so that we could do cheesy, couple-y things together.  I was desperate for a bf at that point, so I decided to start talking to this guy.  We started IM-ing each other and talked on the phone once.  After about a week, we all went out together.  Friend’s bf and the guy showed up high as kites.  We went to a restuarant where my date proceeded to inform me that his mom had only given him $10, so he couldn’t pay for me.  Luckily, I had brought money to pay for myself.  At the restaurant, my date ordered an ice cream, while we all had regular food.  I ended up talking exclusively to my friend’s bf (who was staring at my chest) the entire time.  My friend got pissy and stayed quiet because her bf was more into me than her.  My date was too busy watching TV to notice me.  I just felt awkward and wanted to go home. 

On the way home, my friend’s bf suggest we all go back to my date’s house to hang out some more.  We all had to sneak in after the date had made sure his mom was asleep.  Once in the guy’s bedroom, my friend and her bf started violently making out.  Like, basically having sex with their clothes on.  They were sticking their tongues down each others’ throats, his hands were up her shirt, and her kept picking her up and body slamming her… it was incredibly weird.  Eventually, my date asked if he could kiss me.  We made out in his floor until he got so horny he had to excuse himself to the bathroom, for what I am pretty sure was him relieving himself.

Needless to say, that never went anywhere. 

Post # 25
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I never really went on official dates but my friend and I were chatting with a guy at the bar once and we were getting along fine, he maybe seemed kinda interested…he ordered some chicken wings and when he started eating them I asked how they were and he responded with “THEY WOULD BE A LOT BETTER IF I WAS GETTING A BLOW JOB!”  He had the sauce smeared all around his mouth which somehow made it even more disgusting.  We still laugh about it to this day. 

Post # 26
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

How could I just pick one?   I have had way to many frogs. 

 

Likely the worst would become my stalker.   We had met for dinner and things were going well.   We figured out we shared some commonalities he didn’t expect.   His father owned a VERY nice restruaut and he name dropped to impress me.  I said – oh!  That’s my sister’s boyfriend’s step father X.   Suddenly he gets serious and starts telling me “do not discuss him with my sister or her bf”  after swearing and going through a few rounds of “seriously, you can’t”  I agreed to allow the subject to change. First thing I did when I got home was ask my sister about him.   He was basically a homeless heroin addict that always tried to rip the dad off – stole cheques and broke into the resturant from the inside out to steal things (he had a key).  Anyway he was bad bad news.   Her bf got ahold of him to warn him to stay away from me and that’s when the death threats started and the stalking ect.  for the next few months Ugh… 

Then there was the time I was out with someone who confessed some kind of mental disorder.  I was young and knew nothing so I decided not to judge.  I learned that it was schiophrenia and what that meant a bit later.   He was throwing rocks at ducks and I asked him to stop.  He then started talking to himself (actually he said they were imps) and he said “no,  I can’t hurt her – she’s nice!”   it was a little scary after hearing that conversation play out.  Ack.

Then what about the time I was on a first meet from and online thing.  He’s an engineer and I’m also in sciences and he’s complaining about this female engineer and how women can’t be engineers because they were only really good at making the graphs and pretty pictures and can’t do math.   I started to counter this with how I was the top 5% of all math classes I’ve ever taken and went on and on about math theroy.   I was getting so upset I was yelling in this coffeeshop and people were looking.  We went to leave and he grabbed me HARD and kissed me before I could get away.   He slobbered all over my face and smashed his teeth into mine – ack.  Not only did he not get I hated him but he also was the worst kisser ever.    a friend of a friend later showed up at a party with her new boyfriend – him – and have been together ever since (years).  I pretended I didn’t know him and have gone with that since. 

Hmmmm…. oooorrrr…. the guy who had about 30 drinks with dinner on our first date to loosen up and was barely able to stand up or speak by the end. The bill was like $300+ and he paid it and then said “you owe me” even though 95% of that was all him (I would have paid my own given the chance mind you because I didn’t like him).  He then told me he’d been to jail for breaking into someone’s house drunk and sleeping on thier sofa along with a couple duis and it was against his parole to be drinking at all so he needed me to drive him home.   I said no – went to call a company to drive him and his car home – and he’d run off and presumably drove himself home.

Sorry couldn’t share just one…. I’m lucky those situations are behind me now!  <3

Post # 27
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I wasn’t a big dater but I did go on one date where the guy picked me up half an hour late, drive me 45 minutes away to a place where we needed a reservation and he didn’t have one. We ended up picking up coffe from Starbucks, but since Starbucks is too crowded to sit we end up sitting in an empty building. He had no sense of humor and was such a dud! He asked me to walk around the building and he was like shuffling in his shoes as if they didn’t fit him. Then whn I was hinting that I was tired, he asked me if I wanted pizza. When I declined he decided he wanted us to go anyway and he drove us to a pizza shop. The bars were on the doors, but he wanted to see if they were open! When he finally found a parking space he banged on the door and the owner let him in and gave him the last slice. In order to not prolong this hell I declined eating anything and watched him eat a slice of pizza. Finally he took me home and didnt walk me to the door in the dark, and it was not my house we were going to, I was staying out of town at a friend’s, and my key didn’t work. So glad I’m married now! A few years later I went back to that pizza place when I was visiting with a good friend and it was such a fun time! Lol

Post # 28
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I had a ridiculously huge crush on this guy that I had met once. I pursued him, which was quite unlike me, because he seemed really interested in me when we met. I asked him on a date and he gave a resounding yes but then kept making excuses about why he couldn’t go, so we’d reschedule.

Finally, we planned to go to the movies together. When I met him at the theater, he seemed REALLY happy to see me, gave me a huge hug, huge smile, etc. -Butterflies-

 Then we went inside and and sat down to wait for our theater to open and made polite conversation but it just kept getting more and more awkward. He even pulled out his phone and played Bejeweled as if I weren’t there. Throughout the entire movie, he sat as far away from me as his seat would allow with his legs crossed away from me and leaning in the other direction. At the end of the movie, he said the movie was bad. (it was.)

We walked out to our cars and he again chatted me up in an energetic and friendly way, gave me another big, huge hug and expressed an interest in getting together again. We never did, although I pathetically asked him a couple more times before I decided he was obviously “not that into me”.

It was kind of embarassing but I somehow moved on (lol!) and met my SO – so happy and at least I have a story to tell. 🙂

Post # 29
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

This guy was sort of nerdy but very aggressive…the whole date he just kept trying to touch me, hold my hand etc., and I was not feeling it. He started to pretend like he was drunk (he was a a tall, big, guy and only had 1 glass of wine). He proceeded to kiss me and his sloppy tongue just fell all over my face. He walks me back to my studio apartment to drop me off (thinking he will be invited inside)–yay thank god the date is coming to an END!!! –but NO, I was LOCKED OUT!! While I waited in the lobby for a locksmith, he kept asking me to sit on his lap and telling me to just go back to his place etc etc…after an hour the locksmith came, he invited himself in, finished the bottle of wine he bought me AND ate a cupcake he brought me and fell asleep on my couch! The next morning I pushed him out my door to get ready for work and that’s when the stalking began…e-mails, texts, phone calls, facebook messages, he even tracked me down on twitter to an account I never realized I had! I still have all the messages and just laugh at them now…but what a creep!!!

ETA: Forgot to add, I thought this was kind of ironic..on the date he blurted out that every girl he ever dated always ends up meeting their husband right after they date him…he was the last person I dated before my SO! When he was stalking me, I told him I was engaged to please leave me alone, or my Fiance would get a restraining order against him–turns out my then bf really would be my Fiance (well…soon hopefully!)!

Post # 30
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

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@Pele:  Wow!  Just…. WOW.

Post # 31
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I keep refreshing the page to read more! These are such awful, but entertaining stories.

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