(Closed) Worst part of wedding planning process?

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Post # 3
6263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

So far I’ve hated dress shopping. I HATE to admit that bc I LOVE to shop for any outfit so I thought dress shopping would be the best part : (

Post # 4
1015 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

For us it was engagement ring shopping.  Everything else has been really easy.  I’m hoping the rest goes by so nice!

Post # 5
216 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Each part of it will probably have its challenges, but then it’ll make the stuff that goes easily that much better! 

Venue shopping wasn’t great, and I had some stress about the dress. But cake, flowers, DJ, photog, all of it went pretty easily overall.

I just got tired of being stopped in my work bathroom every day to answer questions about the wedding. I won’t miss that. (It’s sweet that they care, it was just too much.)


Post # 6
1 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

So far for me, picking a photographer has been the most stressful decision because of how expensive they run. (Also, my fiance and I are from opposite sides of the country, so just deciding where to get married was difficult as well.)

Post # 8
433 posts
Helper bee

I’m of the opinion that if I want anything done right, I need to do it myself.  Life has taught me this lesson.  I know I sound like a bit of a control freak here, but the worst part of the planning process for me has been letting other people take the reigns on some DIY projects.  I cringe when they cut things, lol. 

Post # 10
1438 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

For me it was decor and trying to make the whole theme come together and create the right atmosphere, all within a tight budget.

The guest list, seating chart, menu, etc were all a piece of cake. I even rewrote the entire ceremony so it reflected us and that was easy.

Post # 11
2253 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

For me it has been rentals (tables, chairs, etc). Namely because the woman I have to deal with is a major b****! And yes, I said “HAVE TO”. Because we’re getting married on the coast, 3 hours from the city, there’s only a few event rental places and they want an arm and a leg. This rental place is the cheapest, so naturally I’m going with them. 

The lady is just really short with me in emails. Such as, I type out 5 paragraphs and I don’t even get so much as a “hi” and then like a five word response. Not once has she said thank you, even though I sent her the contract signed and am sending the deposit on the tenth.

As long as she gets the stuff where I need it to be, at the right time, and pick it up…whatever. I guess since I own a business I have a certain standard I hold people to with customer service. It’s not hard to say “hello” in an email to at least aknowledge that this person is important to you.


*steps off of soap box* 

Post # 12
1366 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Stressful, stressful, and stressful. My favorite part has probably been picking out a dress. I love fashion and enjoyed the experience most of the time. I was ultra relieved when I finally made a decision though. Picking the venue wasn’t as stressful as I thought it’d be, now it’s just getting all the special details together. Invitations I think has been the most stressful part because we are putting two languages on it. We had to make sure it was worded “correctly” with my fiancé’s parents. 

Post # 13
361 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

For us the guest list and seating chart.

Post # 14
82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Venue shopping has been really stressful for me. There are so many hidden costs with a lot of venues and some venues don’t really include anything but just a place to have the wedding at. Plus, my original venue is now for sale and I found out about it a month ago and it has been really stressful. However, I toured a venue about 3 days ago and I believe that it is where I want to get married at.

Post # 15
4996 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@HappyBride827:  I agree. The guest list was the most stressful thing for me too. 

Post # 16
114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

For me it’s been money and budgeting, mainly as we have none!

Ive most enjoyed listening to lots of lovely music putting together a cd for when everyone’s arriving and for the registry signing etc. I’ve least enjoyed being stressed about money.


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