(Closed) Worst RSVP Ever!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
553 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I got a couple that explained how busy their summers were blah blah blah. Um. Just a no was fine – I didn’t realize I was at the bottom of your list of things to do!

Post # 4
2390 posts
Buzzing bee

@Mrs.RDV: Some people will never learn to behave…

Post # 5
2187 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

that is HORRIBLE! I have never heard of an rsvp coming back like that. Ugh, I’m sorry! I even got offended when people would just check “declines with regrets” without writing anything else!

Post # 6
5983 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

@Mrs.RDV:  R-U-D-E!  No wonder there is family conflict.  Geez!!!

Post # 7
685 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Talk about passive aggressive… I’d get “active aggressive” on them and bitch them out for their rudeness. 😛

Post # 8
5988 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

ugggh – i guess he thought you would give a damn

Post # 9
3253 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

WTf? How rude. Be glad they aren’t coming.

Post # 10
2114 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

wow totally rude . you probably dodged a bullet

Post # 11
726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

So let me get this straight. Some get upset when they only check “decline with regrets” without a reason and some get upset when they check it and write a reason. Guess you can’t please everyone…

Post # 12
227 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I just put a sad face next to my check. I really wish I could go to everyone’s wedding.

Post # 13
10713 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Hey at least you were the bigger person and sent an invite at all right?

Post # 14
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think that’s unnecessary. I’m just curious, do you know about this “family conflict” and do they know that you know? (It’s really none of my business so you don’t have to answer) Either way, I think it is a little dramatic and rude. I agree with the PP that say you dodged a bullet that they are not coming. 

Post # 15
952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

IMO I think it’s more rude to NOT send the RSVP back at all and then show up at the wedding. How hard is it to check it off and put it in the mail?

Post # 16
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011 - The Providence Biltmore

My mother called someone who didn’t rsvp. (I didn’t want to invite this person at all but my mother requested) She told my mom that she “didn’t want to do this over the phone.”  She wanted to come to my house and explain that her husband and my cousin have friction and she couldn’t attend because of that.  JUST SEND BACK THE DAMN CARD! I was so peeved that she was going to ambush me at my home 20 days before the wedding. 

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