Post # 1
I was so excited that Canada Post is back to work, which means the rsvp’s can start rolling in.
Today there was one tiny envelope.
On the rsvp it says:
Due to ongoing family conflict
Then regrets was checked.
Not happy about this. Why couldn’t you just say no and leave it at that.
Any other bees have some interesting rsvp’s?
Post # 3
I got a couple that explained how busy their summers were blah blah blah. Um. Just a no was fine – I didn’t realize I was at the bottom of your list of things to do!
Post # 4
@Mrs.RDV: Some people will never learn to behave…
Post # 5
that is HORRIBLE! I have never heard of an rsvp coming back like that. Ugh, I’m sorry! I even got offended when people would just check “declines with regrets” without writing anything else!
Post # 6
@Mrs.RDV: R-U-D-E! No wonder there is family conflict. Geez!!!
Post # 7
Talk about passive aggressive… I’d get “active aggressive” on them and bitch them out for their rudeness. 😛
Post # 8
ugggh – i guess he thought you would give a damn
Post # 9
WTf? How rude. Be glad they aren’t coming.
Post # 10
wow totally rude . you probably dodged a bullet
Post # 11
So let me get this straight. Some get upset when they only check “decline with regrets” without a reason and some get upset when they check it and write a reason. Guess you can’t please everyone…
Post # 12
I just put a sad face next to my check. I really wish I could go to everyone’s wedding.
Post # 13
Hey at least you were the bigger person and sent an invite at all right?
Post # 14
I think that’s unnecessary. I’m just curious, do you know about this “family conflict” and do they know that you know? (It’s really none of my business so you don’t have to answer) Either way, I think it is a little dramatic and rude. I agree with the PP that say you dodged a bullet that they are not coming.
Post # 15
IMO I think it’s more rude to NOT send the RSVP back at all and then show up at the wedding. How hard is it to check it off and put it in the mail?
Post # 16
- Wedding: March 2011 - The Providence Biltmore
My mother called someone who didn’t rsvp. (I didn’t want to invite this person at all but my mother requested) She told my mom that she “didn’t want to do this over the phone.” She wanted to come to my house and explain that her husband and my cousin have friction and she couldn’t attend because of that. JUST SEND BACK THE DAMN CARD! I was so peeved that she was going to ambush me at my home 20 days before the wedding.