(Closed) Worst thing your future MIL has said to you?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Future Mother-In-Law was talking about FI’s past and about a girl he was friends with.  She kept emphasizing how beautiful this girl was. (she’s done it several times) I don’t think she meant it, but I also don’t think she realized how inappropriate it was.  It was just what she was talking about and how she was saying how beautiful this girl was.  I told Fiance and him it made me feel uncomfortable and like I wasn’t pretty enough for him.  I’m not sure if he ever said anything to her or what, but she stopped talking about said girl.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Future Mother-In-Law told me Fiance was only with me to ‘sow his oats’. 🙁 I dont speak to her anymore. The wedding should be fun:/

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ughh…why do mil’s have to be so horrible? I haven’t spoken to my mil since the wedding. She hasn’t said anything to my face, but since my dh and I started dating she’s always told him and other ppl about how much of a “slut” I am. I was a prudish 15 year old. That’s not the worst though.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

My Mother-In-Law is awesome, we’ve always gotten along. I am very fortunate that I get along with all my ILs. I never really knew I had it as good as I did until I saw all the many IL stories that I do on here

Post # 8
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Busy bee

she called me selfish and spoiled 🙁 not to my face, but when Fi told her we were engaged, she was upset and cited this as the reason. grrr (i dont think its true/fair!)

Post # 9
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100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@mrs_g.mck:  We have four daughters. We’ll be trying once more for a son and I’ve already made a promise to myself NEVER to treat his partners badly (if we have a son!)

Future Mother-In-Law would be furious if her daughter was treated the way she treats me, but thats different I guess…

Future Mother-In-Law was lovely to me in front of people but when no one was around she used to make nasty comments to me. Apparently I ruined her sons life:(

 

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Don’t get me wrong.  Me and Future Mother-In-Law get along.  I just didn’t care for the story I shared above.

Post # 11
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887 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

We told my Mother-In-Law over Christmas that we were having her first grandchild. She waited until after my husband and everyone else left the room, then turned to me and said (in the most evil, nasty, creepy voice ever), “Don’t you dare try to keep my grandchild from me.” Then the guys came back in before I could respond and she pretended like nothing happened. My husband confronted her as soon as I told him about it and she just laughed it off as a “joke.” It was so NOT a joke.

Post # 12
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100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@CEtoSAHM:  oh wow thats kinda creepy.lol

ETA: congrats by the way!

Post # 14
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792 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

General comments about stealing her son, it being my fault he stayed in Scotland after university, we shouldn’t buy a house because he would be tied to me, how I’m selfish for wanting the wedding in Scotland (even though we, all my family and most of our friends live here…)

Post # 16
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774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My Fiance told me that he was talking to his mom on the phone a couple weeks ago, and was telling her that hes nervous about somethings about the wedding, and she quickly said “Its not to late, you can back out now!!!” He said he was shocked, then said that he was worried non of there family would come. He hasnt spoken to her since then, and when he told me I was really shocked and I havent talked to here either.

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