Worthless and a failure

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
914 posts
Busy bee

Ask him why he said that. Stop hurting by yourself. You’re worthy. He doesn’t deserve you. Hugs.

Post # 3
1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

That sucks. Good thing you lost his number and don’t answer unknown numbers. 

Post # 4
9464 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Wait what…? He said that if he wasn’t with you he’d probably be married and living with another chick? I hope I’m just not understanding your post because if that’s what he said I’d question why I’m even with him.

Post # 5
5572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

Which is why he’s your ex, right?

you deserve better.

Post # 6
75 posts
Worker bee

That’s a hurtful thing to say to someone. Don’t beat yoursef up!

Post # 7
4342 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

You post about what a piece of shit this guy is every few months but never actually DO anything about it. What is keeping you from just packing your shit and getting out? There is so much more to life than this. And don’t tell me you’ve wasted too much time or you have too much invested…I didn’t even meet my DH till 33. You have so much life ahead of you, go live it without this guy! Stop posting about how much your life sucks, go change it!

Post # 8
13240 posts
Honey Beekeeper

You mean you know he’s not worth it. 

Post # 9
1599 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

Oh Bee…please just leave him. The last time you posted, you’d been together 10 years and he was turning his phone on silent while you cried yourself to sleep :/.

Post # 10
1705 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

….. yes, he is worthless and a failure at this “relationship” the two of you have. End it and never look back. Don’t let him waste any more of your time or energy. 

Post # 11
173 posts
Blushing bee

And to be brutally honest, if you weren’t with him, you could have married a decent man in that amount of time too. 

Leave him!

Post # 12
945 posts
Busy bee

Is there a stated reason you don’t at least live together? 10 years is a long ass time and I’d be out the door right now (unless the clock started when I was like…15 I guess)

Post # 13
10401 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

At this point, you’re allowing this. It’s hard for me to want to coddle someone who is actively choosing this life everyday. 


Post # 14
2013 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Fool me once, shame on you.  Fool me two, three, four times…… Well you’ve got no excuses.  Take some responsibility in the current state of your life.  You’re the only one who can change it.  So if you haven’t left him by now after the lies and stringing its all on you.  Oh yeah and its a cop out to simply write yourself off as worthless.  You’re young as hell and have plenty of time to make changes and since you won’t I can only conclude that you’re attracted to the dysfunction.

Post # 15
252 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2020

You are not living together,  have nothing connecting you except this relationship.   

If I were you and after hearing what is on his mind.   I would cut him off,  you are still young and will be able to find someone else.

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