(Closed) Worthless bee update

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
490 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

Thinking of you Bee!! I didn’t read ALL of your original thread, but I read enough that made my heart hurt so badly for you.

Hang in there and know there are many of us who are thinking of you and/or praying for you! 

Post # 4
2133 posts
Buzzing bee

Don’t feel obligated to keep updating us. Some things should be kept private. 

Glad you’re okay. And I apologize for having my doubts.

Post # 5
1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I would like to know about what’s going on in your life and that you’re safe, but i get it if you decide not to continue posting. Just remember that for every bee that doubted you, there were dozens who believed you.

You’re in my thoughts. I hope everything settles down and you don’t have to worry about that abusive prick.

Post # 6
104 posts
Blushing bee

Glad to hear you’re okay. I think most people are in support of you and the truth is it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. We’re all really proud of you. I understand if you don’t want to update but if you do don’t worry about having to prove anything, most of us just want to know if you’re safe. If you’re comfortable sharing I’m just curious if your ex is back and if you got a chance to get the restraining order in place. Good luck with everything, keep yourself as safe as possible!

Post # 7
2848 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Dont worry about those few people saying this was made up, it was like just a few people. Theres ALWAYS going to be haters so dont let them get to you. There are a TON of people on this site here for you, so dont let a couple people ruin the support network you have built here.

Did you husband try to contact you?! I’m curious what his reaction is… or does he have absolutly no way to contact you? email?

Post # 8
1405 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2017 - Seattle, WA

I read all of your OP, and all of your updates, but I guess I didn’t see the recent posts where people were doubting you.  I’m very sorry to hear that.  I really enjoyed reading your updates and am really excited for you to begin your new life!  Please don’t let any of the doubting bees discourage you.  The majority of this community supports you!!!!!  I wish you the best of luck!

Post # 8
838 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

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worthlessbee :  You dont need to justify or prove anything to online randoms. You come here if you want to anonymously vent for support, but you dont need to answer to anyone here, especially those jerks who have nothing better to do than spout some negativity towards some in such a tough situation. If youd like to keep posting, just ignore anything that doesnt serve you. You dont need to answer questions or prove anything.

I think youre ****amazing*** and I hope you see the light at the end of the tunnel, that getting your life back is worth all this strife. You can do this! Keep fighting for yourself and stay safe. Internet hugs from me.

Post # 9
369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

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worthlessbee :  thank you so much for the update because i have thouht of you often and want so much for you to be ok. I know that the road ahead is yet long but know that there are people here who care and have no doubt that your story is real. (((hugs))) 

Post # 10
4839 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Keep going! I wish you continued courage and strength. 

Post # 11
1524 posts
Bumble bee

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Please don’t feel discouraged in having a safe space to process your emotions.  Having been where you are, this point in your decision to leave is very painful/difficult and also a dangerous time for you.  Your ex will absolutely be gunning to find you and payback for “leaving’ him will be definitely be on his mind.  Being forced to leave your home and being holed up in an apartment with just the bare necessities is very stressful and an extremely lonely experience.  

Those of us who care are here for you.  [content moderated for name calling] Take care of yourself and if you ever need some love and support, we are always here to cheer you up!  xoxo

Post # 12
296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Thanks for updating us! We were worried about you the last couple of days!! Any updates about the husband coming back or the restraining order or any of it? Obviously you’re still doing pretty well!

Keep going, it’s gonna get better with every day!! 🙂

Post # 13
1076 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I didn’t read your other thread past the first couple pages because it got overwhelmingly long so I don’t know what was said but I just want to reiterate again that I am sorry you are going through this and I am glad you got away. If you choose to continue updating I would like to read them and hope your situation improves.

Post # 14
477 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

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worthlessbee :  You are so brave and strong, and I’m sure that there will be great things in your future. Congratulations on taking these first steps, and please know that you have so much support here. If you never want to update again I would totally respect that, you need to do what is the best for you – but I hope you know that many, many people will be sending good thoughts to you as you begin this new journey. If we don’t hear from you again, thank you for sharing your story with us and best of wishes to you!

Post # 15
10997 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Dear Worthy Bee,

I am sorry that some Bees mistreated you on the other thread.  I won’t speculate on their motives, but hope they will have the moral courage to examine them.

Bee, I have been where you are.  I too left an abusive husband under threats.  I still remember the terror I felt just waiting in my new little cottage, just waiting for him to come and get me.

Keep telling people.  Abuse thrives in secrecy.  Abusers count on it.  Reach out to your local DV facility for support or call the national hotline, 1-800-799-7233.

And absolutely, the decision to leave can be a sudden one.  Once that fuse is lit, things can move very quickly for some of us.

Abusers are pretty predictable.  Victims are not.

Please keep us posted as you can, Worthy Bee.

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