Post # 1
I was looking at Say yes to the dress last night and it was focused on pregnant brides and it got me thinking about whether I’d change the date if whilst got engaged then found out I was pregnant and would be in my second or third trimester at the chosen wedding date. Personally I would move the wedding date yes I know that’s very vain of me but those photos last forever. Anyway what about my fellow bees anyone else would adjust the date or would you not care?
Post # 3
I’d adjust. It’s hard to plan for what size you’ll be. I’d just get it out of the way while I was still reasonably close to measurement of origin.
Post # 4
your poll just has yes/no/maybe but you ask two questions lol. i personally would move the date because i have two children and i remember how tired i was in the third trimester…so i would move the date so i could fully enjoy the wedding and reception
Post # 5
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I’d move the date because I’d rather that the thousands of wedding dollars went to baby gear and preparations. If money wasn’t an issue, I think I’d just rock a cute maternity gown.
Post # 6
your poll does not match the quesitons……
i would move the date, or if I was showing I would not have a wedding and would elope, or do something simple with close family and close friends
Post # 7
i was pregnant when i got married. we had a year engagment and i was like 14 weeks at the wedding. i didnt show at all, still fit into dress and there was no way i was moving the date ! i watched the show last night too, some of those girls were SHOWING ! i would say i would probably just go on with the wedding even if i was showing. im not a drinker so it doesnt really matter and just cause your pregnant doesnt mean it wont be fun.
Post # 8
I hope I don’t ever have to make this choice as I simply cannot fathom being pregnant without being married FIRST. Getting married during a pregnancy if you hadn’t already planned to be married seems ridiculous.
But if I was in thesituation, I wouldn’t marry while showing.
Post # 9
I would not move the date.
Post # 10
Yeah I would still get married, of course. I would probably not spend so much on an expensive gown and party with a little one on the way, but alittle belly would not stop me from marrying my husband. Love that man!
Post # 11
I’d move the date because I wouldn’t want to deal with judgement and rude comments about a “shotgun wedding”
Post # 12
Other: I wouldn’t get pregnant before getting married.
Post # 13
I’d move the wedding up as much as I could. I mean, ideally I would have been married before the pregnancy happened anyway, so I’d want to do it ASAP.
Post # 14
I don’t really care about showing. We’ll be together 7.5 years when we get married and if we get pregnant between now and then we’ll go to the courthouse and get married or just deal with me showing. I want to be married when I have my children and people can judge my belly all they want, I don’t care.
Post # 15
i put ‘it depends’ because… currently i would have to say ‘no’ because i already bought my dress and i paid too much to not be able to use it. but if i had not bought my dress yet, then ‘yes’.
my sister was six months preggo at hers. her boobs looked fantastic.
Post # 16
I voted no.
I believe, that at least for me personally, there is an order of how to go about things and pregnancy comes AFTER marriage!
(Note: I’m not religious, just a prude 😛 )