(Closed) Woud you get married whilst pregnant and showing?

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
  • poll: Would you get married whilst pregnant and showing or would you move the date?
    Yes : (40 votes)
    30 %
    No : (72 votes)
    54 %
    It depends (explain) : (21 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
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    4324 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    I’d adjust. It’s hard to plan for what size you’ll be. I’d just get it out of the way while I was still reasonably close to measurement of origin.

    Post # 4
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    119 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    your poll just has yes/no/maybe but you ask two questions lol. i personally would move the date because i have two children and i remember how tired i was in the third trimester…so i would move the date so i could fully enjoy the wedding and reception

    Post # 5
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    3296 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

    I’d move the date because I’d rather that the thousands of wedding dollars went to baby gear and preparations. If money wasn’t an issue, I think I’d just rock a cute maternity gown.

    Post # 6
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    1470 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    your poll does not match the quesitons……

    i would move the date, or if I was showing I would not have a wedding and would elope, or do something simple with close family and close friends

    Post # 7
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    1036 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    i was pregnant when i got married. we had a year engagment and i was like 14 weeks at the wedding. i didnt show at all, still fit into dress and there was no way i was moving the date ! i watched the show last night too, some of those girls were SHOWING ! i would say i would probably just go on with the wedding even if i was showing. im not a drinker so it doesnt really matter and just cause your pregnant doesnt mean it wont be fun.

    Post # 8
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    2009 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I hope I don’t ever have to make this choice as I simply cannot fathom being pregnant without being married FIRST.  Getting married during a pregnancy if you hadn’t already planned to be married seems ridiculous.

    But if I was in thesituation, I wouldn’t marry while showing.

    Post # 9
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    2135 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I would not move the date.

    Post # 10
    Member
    4272 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Yeah I would still get married, of course. I would probably not spend so much on an expensive gown and party with a little one on the way, but alittle belly would not stop me from marrying my husband. Love that man!

    Post # 11
    Member
    963 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I’d move the date because I wouldn’t want to deal with judgement and rude comments about a “shotgun wedding”

    Post # 12
    Member
    10603 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Other: I wouldn’t get pregnant before getting married.

    Post # 13
    Member
    1323 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    I’d move the wedding up as much as I could. I mean, ideally I would have been married before the pregnancy happened anyway, so I’d want to do it ASAP.

    Post # 14
    Member
    1748 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I don’t really care about showing. We’ll be together 7.5 years when we get married and if we get pregnant between now and then we’ll go to the courthouse and get married or just deal with me showing. I want to be married when I have my children and people can judge my belly all they want, I don’t care.

    Post # 15
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    2450 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    i put ‘it depends’ because… currently i would have to say ‘no’ because i already bought my dress and i paid too much to not be able to use it. but if i had not bought my dress yet, then ‘yes’.

     

    my sister was six months preggo at hers. her boobs looked fantastic.

    Post # 16
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    56 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I voted no. 

    I believe, that at least for me personally, there is an order of how to go about things and pregnancy comes AFTER marriage!

    (Note: I’m not religious, just a prude 😛 )

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