(Closed) Would I be stealing his thunder?

posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
  • poll: When should I tell my coworkers about my pregnancy?
    Monday : (14 votes)
    7 %
    Tuesday : (49 votes)
    26 %
    Wait until 12 weeks : (126 votes)
    66 %
    Never! : (2 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2010

    @ExcitedScaredBee:  I think if you’re worried at all, maybe you should wait the extra day. I know how crazy hard that will be, but I’m sure he’ll have some exciting stories to tell and he’ll want to have that moment. You’re a good person for considering his feelings and I think he would appreciate it if you let him have one more day to bask in his happiness about his wedding/honeymoon. 🙂 Come Tuesday, I’d say IT’S ON, GIRL! haha 

     

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I’d just wait a day or two

    Post # 5
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    955 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I don’t know on this one….guys are different than girls on this sort of stuff.

     

    I don’t think he’d really hold any grudge against you sharing your news on the day he returns from his honeymoon.

     

     

    Post # 6
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Honestly I would wait til you are 12 weeks or more along to say anything to co workers.

    Post # 7
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    751 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @ExcitedScaredBee:  I’d wait a day or two.

    I also agree with the PP though, I am currently 13w6d and still haven’t said anything to my coworkers. I definitely recommend waiting until at least 12 weeks.

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Sassygrn:  +1

    I’d wait until second trimester.

    Post # 9
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I would not tell coworkers until 12 weeks.  No exceptions.

    Post # 10
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    777 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I don’t think he’d really look at it as you stealing his thunder. I don’t think guys really think about it like that. However, as PP have said, I’d wait until 12 weeks.

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    As someone who has had to “un-tell” people I was pregnant multiple times, I would wait until 12 weeks, no question. I’m not saying snything bad will happen, and of course if the u/s looks good at 10 weeks, your chances are great, but still…it doesn’t hurt to wait a little while longer.

    Post # 13
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I would also wait until 12 weeks and then tell. Then you don’t have to worry about it.

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I really think everyone should always wait 12 weeks.

    I’m not trying to scare you, but we recently had TWO situations in my office where one of the ladies announced her pregnancy too early than lost it. Same thing happened to a guy I work with too.

    Was so sad for the parents, and uncomfortable for the rest of us.

    Post # 15
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I would wait until 12 weeks. Not saying anything will happen, but if something did it would generally be in the 12 weeks.

    Post # 16
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I don’t think guys care about that kind of stuff, but I’d probably wait til Tuesday anyway because I’m sure your co-workers will be asking him a million questions.

    As long as you’ve heard the heartbeat, I don’t see any reason to wait til 12 weeks. Your risk of miscarriage at this point is less than 1.5%. I’d only wait the 12 weeks if I hadn’t had an u/s and heard the heartbeat.

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