Post # 1
Inspired by a thread earlier today, I’m wondering if it would be horribly tacky to send personalized generic TY’s? By that I mean we would order TY’s with something along the lines of “We’re so happy that you were able to share in our special day.” printed and then hand write a personalized Thank You for the gift they gave.
To me this doesn’t seem bad but I’ve never received a Thank You like this so I wonder if others would find it tacky. Thoughts?
Post # 3
It’s a thank-you and it’s personalized in some way, so no, I don’t think it’s tacky at all!
Post # 4
IMO, as long as you write a personal note on each, it’s fine!
How is a photocard less polite than a hallmark card? 🙂 Plus bonus free photo!
Tacky would be getting upset if everyone doesn’t hang it on their fridge 😉
Post # 5
I think it would be alright if you included the generic message, and then personalized like you said. If there is just a generic message without any handwriting, that would be poor form.
Post # 6
As long as you hand-write a heartful thank you note on it, it’s fine!
Post # 7
Thanks for the feedback. It just seems so repetitive having to write the same opener on 40 TY’s when it could just be printed.
Post # 8
I just got one like this. They had ordered photo notecards from Kodak Gallery with their wedding photo on the outside. I loved the photo card idea. I am a stickler for etiquette but as long as there is a handwritten note, I think that’s fine. Kind of wish I had thought of it…
Post # 9
Sounds like a good idea to me. I agree with everyone else, if there’s a handwritten note in there, too, it’s fine.
Post # 10
Totally fine–just make sure you DO personalize it!
Post # 11
No that’s fine – I get many TYs like this!
As long as there is a personal note I think it’s fine!
Post # 12
The only problem I see coming up is what if they didn’t attend the wedding but still sent a gift? Would you have a different card?
Post # 13
As long as you don’t do this: I went to a wedding over the summer where they handed out pre printed, unpersonalized, thank you notes as you left the reception and that was it 🙁
Post # 14
That is what I am doing. I got them to match my invites and didn’t want them just plain, do I had that same thing written on them at the very top of the inside and then will write a personal note to each person.
Post # 15
@seattlemeg: We would order some blank ones for those that couldn’t attend.
@ninefivethree: Wow, thats… lovely? lol
Post # 16
(although I have dreams–dreams!–of making one stamp that says: “Thank you for coming. We loved the gift” and pounding through like I’m that lady at the DMV).
I swear I’m klassy in person.