Post # 1
Do you bees think that it would be ok to just tell my SO to not embarress me again by not proposing by the end of the month?
I am scared that he already plans to do it this month and me saying something would kinda ruin it.
What do you think? If you want a catch up on our story you can look at my other posts.
Post # 3
Based on your other post, I’d say it’s today’s bad waiting day talking. I am not sure how you would feel embarrased by him proposing. Or do you mean by NOT proposing? Remember to keep the faith. Our SO’s truly are trying to make these experiences good for us. In the end it’s about you, him, and your relationship. The embarrassment factor makes it sound a bit too much like it’s about others. Maybe trying to keep busy or making a list about why you’re so excited to marry him would help?
Either way, I can tell you’re feeling a lot of pain right now. I sincerely hope that you feel better soon. You are strong and will get through this.
Post # 4
@Loyalfox13: Thank you for that. And I mean that he told me that he would have proposed by the end of 2012, and in essense I told my friends that is when it probably would be. So i will be really embarresed if he does not propose by the end of the month. Does that make sense?
Thank you for the encouragement!
Post # 5
@katy13: Aw, I’m sorry girl. I agree, I think you’re having a rough day. Maybe sleep on it an think about it again tomorrow? If he truly cares about your feelings, I don’t think he will make you wait much longer.
Post # 6
I guess I should not. Bah!!! Why can’t the waiting just stop! lol
Post # 7
If it makes u feel any better was told by so that it would happen for me before last summer then Christmas and I’m still ringless 🙁 he has now said this summer but I know he has the ring in our house and I know he has planned a getaway for us at the end of the month so Im hoping it will be then!
What I’m trying to say is maybe he is trying to throw you off- make sure its a total surprise and completely memorable!
I can ceertainly relate to the frustration you are feeling and I hope it comes soon for you (and the rest of us)!
Good luck and chin up! 🙂
Post # 8
@IreGal: That is what I am beginning to figure. I understand him wanting it to be a surprise, and I want it to be. Just have to keep my head up and smile on. 🙂