(Closed) Would it be rude…

posted 4 years ago in August 2013
  • poll: Rude, or just practical?
    Rude/Pushy : (11 votes)
    35 %
    Practical, logical, even polite, as we need to get them an invitation. : (20 votes)
    65 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I would send an email asking your guests to respond with their address. Don’t make them fill it out on the website, thats too much work. (Its not that much more work, but its enough that its going to deter people from doing it.)

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    1) i found a good 70% of my addresses googling. scary? maybe but it works

    2) i wouldn’t ask them to do that, don’t make your guests work. just message them in private (you do your friends, your fiance his) asking them for a mailing address.

     

     

    Post # 6
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @Duncan:  sorry, i didn’t know

    Post # 7
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    not rude but may still not get you the results you want.

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    @asscherlover:  +1 It’s way easier to just reply to you with my address rather than have to go somewhere else to do it.

    Post # 9
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @bebero:  We found a bunch by googling too. I was too nervous to just go on that so I did a few confirmations but yeah it’s totally weird how many you can get with a quick google.

    Post # 10
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Contact people directly to ask of you can’t find them in the white pages

    Post # 11
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    I would just call them and ask them, or e-mail them personally to ask them for it. If it seems like you’re sending a form letter, that might not come off well. 

    Post # 12
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    @asscherlover:  +1 … maybe in the next email give them the option to either reply back with your address or go to the website to fill it out.

    Post # 14
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Direct email and Facebook chat if appropriate.

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